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Hassler
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 Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:39 am Post subject: What do I do when she starts callin friends? |
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| Ok, so I just met this girl and hung out with her a couple nights ago (The second time I hung out with her... within like the 1st 2 hours of hangin out with her) and she calls up her friends (Guys) to see what they are up to. I'm pretty sure I wasn't boring her, so what do you guys think? And how could I have prevented/ reacted? |
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arkmandluxe
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| Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 2:35 am Post subject: Re: What do I do when she starts callin friends? |
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| Hassler wrote: | | Ok, so I just met this girl and hung out with her a couple nights ago (The second time I hung out with her... within like the 1st 2 hours of hangin out with her) and she calls up her friends (Guys) to see what they are up to. I'm pretty sure I wasn't boring her, so what do you guys think? And how could I have prevented/ reacted? |
Did you kino escalate with her? Did you neg her and be cocky? Talking to her too much will put you in the friend relationship. |
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Ka
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Call your female friends...
Walk away and open another set...
Say something like, "Hey you are obviously a busy gal, i think ima go meet up with some other friends."
She may not mean anything by it, maybe she had an obligation to get a hold of these people and it slipped her mind...who cares. Punish her for not giving you what you want.
Dunt call/talk to her for a few days, when you finally do and she asks whats been goin on, tell her about some amazing person you meet, tell her you got caught up in work/school, tell her you were busy (be vague, sometimes the mind runs wild  ).
You are the prize, anytime you ask yourself what to do when a girl isnt giving you what you want you take the prize away. |
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Hassler
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| Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 4:28 am Post subject: |
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| Ka wrote: |
Say something like, "Hey you are obviously a busy gal, i think ima go meet up with some other friends."
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That's badass man. |
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sandman808
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| Ka wrote: | Call your female friends...
Walk away and open another set...
Say something like, "Hey you are obviously a busy gal, i think ima go meet up with some other friends." |
listen to this man |
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saqchek
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| Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 8:33 pm Post subject: Re: What do I do when she starts callin friends? |
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| Hassler wrote: | | Ok, so I just met this girl and hung out with her a couple nights ago (The second time I hung out with her... within like the 1st 2 hours of hangin out with her) and she calls up her friends (Guys) to see what they are up to. I'm pretty sure I wasn't boring her, so what do you guys think? And how could I have prevented/ reacted? |
Ok, is this a 2nd day thing with just you and her 1 on 1? This isn't the same chick from the park is it? If she's hanging out with you and calling other guys, then you can't be that interesting to her. Trust me. What you perceive is true and what is reality could be totally different. Trust me, the signs will be there. If you don't get the signs, then you could potentially be doing shit wrong. |
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Ka
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| Thanks Hassler and sandman, good luck let me know if it works out for you...im new but this stuff gets easier every day |
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imnotghetto
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| Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 9:44 pm Post subject: Re: What do I do when she starts callin friends? |
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| Hassler wrote: | | Ok, so I just met this girl and hung out with her a couple nights ago (The second time I hung out with her... within like the 1st 2 hours of hangin out with her) and she calls up her friends (Guys) to see what they are up to. I'm pretty sure I wasn't boring her, so what do you guys think? And how could I have prevented/ reacted? |
Well even I know she isn't into you. And you were obviously boring her because she called up her guy friends...I'm guessing you didn't neg or dhv or use kino either. If you did, you didn't do it enough to keep her attention. You could have prevented her calling by being more interesting and using the kino/negs/dhv. As to reacting to her...you could have whipped out your phone to talk to girl friends but that would just show you're absolutely not interested and she would just leave. At this point i'd stop talking to her to keep my value... |
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