I'm trying to figure this out man. Cause I said this story completly by accident with a girl I got laid with (before I knew about PU). I think the vulnerability story has something to do with it cause I said it within the 1st 5-10minutes. She was Columbian 8/10.

HB8: Bla bla (what sounded like spanish)
Fikshen: Hola - habla espanol? (over my shoulder while buying a drink)
HB8: Si jnecjwncjwncjkwneck (in spanish - didnt understand a word)

She seemed to have put up her bitch shield only in spanish.

Fikshen: Tu es muy fuerte no? (you are a bit strong aren't you?)
HB8: *pulls up a chair for me*
Fikshen: *sits down with her* Tu es corazon es muy freo. (your heart is cold)
HB8: *looks at me strange*
Fikshen: Mi amigos es aqui. Hablar con mi amigos. (my friends are there, come and talk to my friends)
Hb8: No - habla aqui. (ill stay and talk here)
Fikshen: OK, habla aqui con dos. (talk here with me and another friend)
HB8: Con dos?
Fikshen: con dos.

I get her name and I bring my friend Ben to the table.

Fikshen: Tu es corazon es caliente? (Do you have a warm heart?).
Fikshen: Habla Ingles? My friend over there is getting married. What do u think about that? *points to my group of 4 guys*
HB8: I dont like Marriage
Fikshen: I totally disagree. Marriage is a good thing. Guess how long my parents have been married for?
HB8: Dont know
Fikshen: 25 years.
HB8: wow.
Fikshen: Guess how long my grandparents have been married for?
HB8: *SHakes head?*
Fikshen: 50 years. Marriage is good. I dont think you'd even KNOW what it would feel like. Give me your hand.
HB8: *gives me hand*
Fikshen: *Look her in the eye - pretend to put a ring on her finger and said* "will you marry me"
HB8: smiles
Fikshen: *leans back* see I dont even think you'd know what it would feel like.
HB8: *Starts kinoing my leg with hers*
Fikshen: what do you do?
HB8: I'm a writer.

Then she gets some of her poetry out of her bag, and shows me them.

HB8: What do you think?
Fikshen: Yeah, these are really good. (*its love poetry. This is lunacy!*)
HB8: *Hands me poetry in spanish*
Fikshen: *Pretends to read and understand* - yeah its really good, i like it.
Fikshen: *Passes to Ben*
Ben: *says to me* "- this is crap!"

Fikshen: Soy es Argentina. Tengo una grande famila en Argentina. Abuelita Julio, Abuelita Hebe, Amalia, Eduardo. Mas grande. But I still dont know if her heart is warm or not. Girls are problems.
Ben: Yeah tell her about the time your girlfriend didnt visit you at the hospital.

Fikshen: *Runs Vulnerability story by accident*

Back when I was at uni, I was walking back late from a club with my friend. Just me and him. Then we got jumped by 3 guys. It was me against three. By the time my friend joined in it was too late, and they got away in a taxi. I spent the next 4 days in hospital. The cool thing was, and it totally surprised me, but all my friends came and visited me while I was in the hospital bed recovering. One of my friends bought me a discman. And I had loads of cards and flowers and stuff all around my bed. But the thing was, my girlfriend never turned up. Can you believe that?

Fikshen: *cause its a real story, i look kind of sad and shake my head - its not acting!*
Fikshen: So if I ended up in hospital tonight would you visit me?
HB8: I dont know you?
Fikshen: *shakes head* "even if I was in a car crash, you wouldn't visit me?"
HB8: No! I dont know you...
Fikshen: Okay would you pray for me? (I know she's south american she probably believes in God).
HB8: Yeah I would pray for you.
Fikshen: cool.

Then we bounced to the pool hall together. Ben stayed with the rest of the group. And I got laid.

What do you guys think to that story. I thought it was a DLV that the girlfriend didnt visit me? I dont get it..

peace

a lot of PUAs I knw critzce me for using vulnerbality stories, they say its very DLV, but if ur game so far has been sound and confident a story like u told can defintly bost the girls view of u, girls can relate to things like that and want a guy to be mysterious and muliti dimentional, I would suggest never overdoing a sob story or telling one too often, but every once in a while throw one in, I wouldn't suggest telling one when u first meet not a good idea but on first or second dates yes

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Thanks a lot for reading... I think Ill use ti again.

Sinn says that you should have contrast in your personality. e.g. Tupac is sexy and everyone remembers him as one of their favourite rappers. Why? Because on the one hand he's super alpha (f*** biggies etc.), but then on the other, he writes songs like "Dear Momma." Whick chicks really dig.

I was watching Meehow on the videos here with mystery. Watch him throw in his vulnerability. You can actually see the girl fall in love right there and then. I'm gunna use this story again, and see how it goes!
peace

You are totally right.
It is never good to try and build attraction with vulnerability. Except comfort and rapport is built using connection.
If a girl feels she can relate to your vulnerable story, and the fact that perhaps you are letting her in through your tough exterior with a bit of a sob story can build immense comfort. Especially encouraging them to open up to you (not like "Hey now I have told the story of my girlfriend raping my best friend. How about you tell me the worst moment in your life?!?!"). Just tell a story and see if they attempt to bring up a story of theirs where they were vulnerable. Immense IOI as well.

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I've started throwing in stuff like:

I was the driver, but we got lost cause I'm a total idiot with maps. Sometimes I'm such a loser.

Man, do I suck.

I keep a diary.

You totally kicked my ass.

I was scared shitless.

I'm scared of spiders.

I'm not superman. I make mistakes. I dont have an instruction book on how to be human.

My grandma bought me this jumper. Its a national geographic jumper. I love travel, and before I do what I do now, I wanted to work for the national geographic. Travel to the amazon and meet with tribes people and stuff. You guys use any others?

They use vulnerability a lot in movies. But I'm still experimenting with it. Havne't really found anything that goes in depth into showing vulnerability.