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when you opened these sets what were they doing?
I dont think you really need social proof on the dancefloor, as long as you dont just continously walk around looking to hook in, i think being by yourself is fine. Get a few drinks in the club, talk to the bartender or anyone else in that vicinity and make some new friends.
Usually the girls were dancing in 2 sets or even 3,4 or 5. Thats pretty much when I would take my generic dance stature over to them and initiate kino by a leg touch or moving my thigh against them.
Don't know how many times I got rejected because I usually forget about rejections right after they happen.
At first I had a few good reactions, the girls in a 2 set gave me IOIs, right off the start. But as it went on other groups wouldn't have any of it. I wasn't intimidated by any means but never really made a strong approach tot he front of a girl. Perhaps thats what the problem was. I also think a bit of humour and conversation on the dance floor goes a long way to build comfort, last night being the example.