This is over the past week. Critique it, how am I doing, what are chances ect ect.

VERY LONG lol

I only know of 1 couple at my school, so here goes. (yes male-female)

I go to UTI, a male dominated school, the ratio is about 100 dudes - 1 chick. Well just started this phase and I have an amazingly high number of females in my class. (3) Ya... rofl.

Any who, there is one who is exceptionally cute, not hot but cute. Every guy in class seems to drool over here and act like an idiot. Always getting her attention and shit. I don't. I just do what I do. I sit under the clock in the front of the class by the door, she sits diagonal from me. I face the left side.

I ALWAYS catch her staring at me. Glancing at me to. She acts like she is looking at the clock after I look at her. During lab shes always asking me questions, how to do, what to do ect. and just standing right next to me in general. Not the same group either.

Last, She is from Utah, SLC (not a mormon lulz). So I got homefield advantage over any other dude because I was born and raised here. I have only met 3 people out of the thousands that are from around here.

So... should I go for it?

Update:

Went for it on tuesday. (of last week)


Gave me her number with a smile. Me and a few friends were next to each other, bout 10 of us bull shitting then they wanted to race, so we all get in our cars and I happened to be in front of her car on the driver side. As soon as we all fired up, she went to her car to leave.. she was talking to people till just that moment then she rushed to her car. (timing?) I rolled forward when she had her door open like I was gunna hit it, she closed it and I stopped next to her window. She rolls it down, I just say "so whats your number?" I thought that she may have been 'smiling' because it was bright outside, but realized shes got sun glasses on. lulz

Asked her to sushi on saturday, shes going down to SF with friends and said "Im sorry." Asked her if she had ever been to a show down here (aka concert in a small venue) she didn't know wtf I was talking about. If she aint workin shes goin.


THE ONLY REASON I CAME HERE TO ASK THIS: Its a school full of dudes. Pretty fukkin difficult to stand out, don't ya think? lol I gotta somehow make myself > the other 800 guys.

Halp me dew dat.

I know, just be myself, yadiyadiyada.

Before you jump the gun and say I may be giving her attention, heres how it is:

I am going to call her L.

I didn't inform you of the rest of my day (i.e. what i do, i just informed of the target). Allow me to enlighten. (please remember we have 6 hour days, one 15 minute break, one 30 minute break)

I have a few friends there that are female. 2 In particular are really cool. I sit next to one in my class, shes the only one I know in the class (and sorta a few guys by association). So me and her talk a bit. During breaks everyone follows L, as if they don't have friends. I just do my business, eating my tuna and cottage cheese while talking and hanging out with my friends at the school. Always talking to female friends and other dudes that I have known for a few months and been in classes with. I don't look around for L, I don't slow down for L on break when leaving class. I do what I do.

I don't talk to L. I hardly talk to her in class unless she asks me a question. I don't give her attention at all, let alone the 'special' attention. I am usually negging her though, I don't believe I have said one real positive thing to her yet. (other than when she asks questions)

Every other guy just crowds around her, like after school today when talkin with friends arguing what weighs more, a golf gti or a jetta, about 8 guys were around her, trying very had to be badass.

I do this for everyone though, not just her. So its not like I am singling her out in any way. I have both of the other girls numbers that I know.

As for texting. I have trained myself to not text.

Last Week:

Did a little bit of flirting near the end of class last wednesday. We had to clean the tables for night classes, so I tossed a few rags right in front of her, she balled them up and nailed me in the face and laughed. of course i hit her back with them.

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(this one is semi-hard to follow)

So thursday during our lab time, I was standing helping one of my group members tear apart a drum. I turn around to look at the group next to us because they are having trouble. She happened to be right there... we looked at each other for a brief moment, then she proceeded to wipe her finger on my safety glasses. (mandatory glasses for school) she laughs and I do it right back. She then took both of her hands (yes while on my face) and did it.

Get out to my car, put my stuff in it, then proceed to talk to one of the females I know there. The girl (L) was parked like right next to my FEMALE friends car and I was facing towards where L was parked at. As she put her bag in her trunk she kept looking at me and glancing at me. I didn't bother... just kept talking to my FEMALE friend. (jealousy or what??)

Some dude in a group she was standing with started like rubbing her back and shit, and she just stood there, hands in pockets. They walked away from the group by her car, had a talk about whatever, then walked back to the group where he didn't touch her any more. (no they didn't hold hands or hug or anything when walking)

Same dude I see waiting by her car for her most of the time after school. lol stalker?

Now, I have asked her out to a show (aka concert) at a small venue on march 5th. Just to let you know.

TODAY:

Curve-ball thrown.

People were askin her question in class, she dated some dude for 2 years (broke up last year around this time) then another over the summer and broke up with him because she came here and didn't want long distance... then she throws out "plus I go to a school full of guys, i didn't want to be taken."

dun dun dunnnnnnnn

Now it is 50/50. Shes either a slut (win) OR she wanted to find someone better. (win)

Did she agree to go to the March 5 show?

Also, it seems like this girl is pretty into you. Flirting (rubbing hands on glasses) etc., but try not to read into every little thing and analyze it here. Just do what you do and stay cool man. If she did agree to go to that show then that's great, escalate there and take it from there. Good luck.

She said if she doesn't have work. I will find out later tomorrow if she has it off or not. If she does have work I do have an extra ticket (seriously, got 2 for my bday) to another concert on the 11th. lol Ya, I am a concert goer.

Does that seem a bit to needy/clingy or what? (if I ask her to the 2nd one) and as for reading into a lot of stuff, I really don't. I let you guys do that... I just point out things that stood out to me.