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PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 10:19 am 
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 10:26 am 
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go out often, the more girls you talk to, the better


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 10:30 am 
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I'm not that advanced myself, but my one piece of advice would be this:

Do not give up.

Sometimes you feel that progress is slow. Sometimes you have a shit day of game, or even long periods where nothing works. These setbacks are temporary as long as you keep on pushing and try to learn from them. Friday, I had a shit night where my friend was pulling and kissing all night, while I did pretty much nothing. I felt tired and frightened, and I wanted to give up. On saturday, we went out again. This time I did something I have never done before, NC at a loud bar with a dance floor. I called her on Sunday, and have a "date" set up now. If I had given in to my feelings of failure on Friday, I'd never have made this progress on Saturday and Sunday. My buddy and I are going out again tonight, after my date :)

I'm no PUA, but if I stay on the path I may become one. This is true for you as well!


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 3:15 pm 
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Don't give up.
Don't be afraid to take criticism.

I see lots of guys who go out twice, try a few techniques they read on a forum, and then say "this is bullshit. I'm never going to be good with women." And considering they never try again, that becomes their truth.

Much better are the guys who say "I've made 100s of approaches! But I'm starting to think this is bullshit." At least they're trying. But a lot of the time, they think that sheer persistence and balls will lead them to success.

Not true. If you never adapt, you'll never succeed.

You have to be willing to self-criticize, or compare yourself to a friend who is good with women, or actually get someone to teach you. Anything that will stop you from making the same mistakes over and over.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 3:33 pm 
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If you want to be one of the best, create your own game, and become a natural.

The guys who stick to scripts, cheesy pick up lines, and out outrageous peacocking are the ones who struggle in the game.

The biggest part of pick up is your inner game, confidence will take you to a whole new level! If you have to fake who you are and use a script you are just wanna be IMO.

How to you achieve this?

1# Figure out your passion and passion and pursue, this will make you a more interesting person, give you joy, and make you more enjoyable to be around.

2# Take care of your body, eat health, go to the gym, you will feel much better about your self!

3# Take a care of your looks, whiten your teeth, learn about style and pick a style that matches your personality! Don't try to dress like an artsy person if you are a jock ect ect...

4# read books on positive thinking, it really does have a major impact on your life! everything has an energy what you put out into the world is what comes back to you, if your always negative then you will live a negative life.

5# find a pick up style that fits your life style...not all methods will work for you, some are more aggressive, some are more passive, you need to find a few guys who really interest you and learn from them.

6# and possibly the most important tip, something that many pua's never do is learn how women think!!!!!! you can throw out as many one liners as you want, and go on a million dates, but if you don't understand how a womens brain works you will never keep her around! buy books on womens brains, read articles ect ect...women think with the emotional part of the brain and men with the logical part and so what makes sens to us, makes no sens to a women! If you can learn how to spark a women's emotions that is 90% of the game right there! "Pick up" is really a very small part of the game, after the first hour with a girl you if you want to keep her around you better understand how her brain works!

If you can master these 6 things I promise you will be miles ahead of 90% of the guys in here!


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