woman and men communicate differently - women love to know that you understand this and here is a great story you can use to display your knowledge on the subject - it will make you seemed experienced and interesting:

A husband and wife are driving on a interstate any where USA. The wife notices a McDonalds coming up in a 1/4 miles. She turns to the husband and states: We should see if the kids need to go to the bathroom. Husband turns around and says "anyone need to go?" The kids reply "no." The husband keeps on driving.

It's at this point you will get a laugh out of your target. Because what she knows is that the wife needed to go to the bathroom and the husband never even considered that - he never asked about her.

Women aren't as direct as men are but want to feel like you understand them and you will go the extra mile to relate. This story will clearly demonstrate value to her. It's worked 100% of the time.