I get HB 8.5 # at the bar. I tried to pull her to tacos that night, but she texted back saying she had a headache and wanted to head home. The next day I texted, "I probably shouldn't even hang out with you, but you have a great energy, so I want to anyways. (She talked about what confidence and energy I had!) My time is really valuable and I'm working on a lot, so I usually never text during the week. (My way of managing my real life, since I don't like texting for no reason.) But lets get together this weekend. I'll text you Thurs with details." She responded, "aw you're sweet! well you have great energy also!!
ok, let's make something happen this weekend. talk to you later then
" I figure that's a great response! I text her yesterday night, "Hey! I have some free time Sat. Do you know where Dick n Dixie's is? (Being super assumptive that she's going to come.) There's a little place near there I wanna check out. (Something I've already wanted to do and now I'm including her.)" She texts back, "Aww! I have to work all day Sat and nigh doing promos!! oh no face! maybe we can meet when I am back from oregon after the 15th if you have time?"
So I have two questions: 1) Related specifically to this girl, how can I shift, so that I can try to her tonight? I don't want to wait until the 15th. My experience tells me her emotions will die down by then and then it won't happen. I want to see her today, Friday, before she leaves, so I can cement attraction and comfort and hopefully make out before she goes to Oregon. Then she can think about me the whole time she's there! How can I best create new times to be available tonight instead and yet not be chasing?
2) Generally, how do you guys deal with scheduling conflicts? For example, I know I can see her Fri night, Sat day, Sat night, and Sun day, and Sun night. However, I don't want to come across that available. I want to appear like I have a life, which I actually do, and just lead her on the date. Like this is where we're going at this time and why? Yet, I realize I still need to be flexible on the time, because she may want to come and really have a scheduling conflict. So how do I create times that she can pick from, so we can see each other, yet I still retain value?
I really want to pull this girl. It would be my first day 2, and first pull from pickup. Yet, as much as I want the outcome, I'm not outcome dependent. I'm actually just really excited to fucking progress!
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