Where I live pick up is only for the movies . Most people know each other because of schools or work .At bars and pubs if you don't have a groupe of girls already with you , chances are you're getting nothing because everyone will reject you ( tried it so many times ) .I admit I may be overexagerating because I am no casanova but really considering ISIS is right around the corner from us , women are overly defensive . Number closing usually tends to nothing because pickup is so rare that woman give their numbers for the heik of geting number closed . Numberclosing is perceived as sexual and kills the friendly vibe instantly and tends to guarantee an awkward cautious vibe later on . I am starting to believe that I am better off trying to kissclose instead of numberclosing .Am i over exagerating ? do you think I should delay number closing ( or even skip it completely and ask for something else maybe ). Help me out guys and thanks in advance

I was thinking you were from Ontario, Canada, until you said ISIS is around the cornor... in which case getting laid would be the last thing on my mind too. Where are you from BTW?

Lebanon and no no the country isn't a war zone yet . It's just that you wouldn't know from the people walking on the street which one is syrian which one is Lebanese and which one is an extrimist syrian ( isis ) . So woman are pretty cautious but still there's a strong night life and everything is pretty normal if you look outside the window .... so about my question any sugestions ?