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So yeah, I was more or less just lashing out at her. See, in her profile she is Bisexual, seems pretty open minded indeed, but the fact that she put that a relationship doesn't need sex all the time was rediculous to me (as that is something I'd want from any girl) and something she put about marriage I cannot remember.
I think you first need to realize that when a girl says she is open minded it needs to be taken in context and even then with online you need to be careful of the context. As it could be sexual or new ideas of thinking or expression, or even new experiences. As far as the sex part goes you need to be realistic about your wants and needs. I am not saying your want isn't per say, but more be flexible with your needs and wants. Saying that there is no harm in having a few wants/needs that you won't budge on, if daily sex is one then you may want to skip this girl as I doubt thinks will work out.
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Anyhow, seems like she has high standards for the guy but not for herself.
Does she mention any degree or good paying job? If so she may have high standards for her self. Saying that you have to keep in mind that girls marry/date up not down usually. Plus this is an online dating site which means more than likely she gets loads of messages per day and have the pick of the litter so to speak.
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So what do I do? I could keep bashing her, but would it lead anywhere?
Bashing her won't help you any really. Best to throw her curve balls if you will. It will keep her on her feet, and help separate you even more from the pack and have her more focus on you.
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How do I maintain my frame and lead to sex?
Throw in sexual innuendos and/or take what she says sexually. But don't start out blatantly work up to it, it will make you less of a perv/creep.
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Like I've said, I always seem to lose the attraction so something must be wrong, I'm just trying to find out what it is.
You really don't need attraction per say with online but more interests and comfort. Majority of online dating is no more than online marketing really. As the whole point is to draw them in so that they "buy" the product in this case its them given you their number and you meet them in person.
Btw flogging is a form of whipping, the fact that she brought this up may indicate she has a kinky side to her, which means the open minded is sexual.