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I am very new to this and still learning. So I saw a girl giving me glances as I was working out in my gym. She seemed pretty interested with just the way she was looking, but I am pretty shy still and not yet got my openers calibrated, so I did not bother approaching within 5 seconds of eye contact. Later in the Aerobics room, I was working on my Gym Ball, and she walked in the room.After a few mins, she asked me if she could use the Gym Ball I was using. I gave it to her, and she asked me if she is doing the exercise right. She was not doing it right, so I taught her how to do it properly.We just talked bout the difference exercises, and she kept kept staying by my side even while I was working out my own stuff, just observing me even tough I was not teaching her those. It was already 15 mins into us talking, but I had no where introduced myself. By the time I thought of doing it, the gym closed down, and we had to leave. We just exchanged goodbyes.
I want to know how do I make it right or I lost the chance now with her? Can I still have a regular chat with her next time and then introduce myself? What do I do more to get her interested and perhaps come out for coffee?
Wow man you had IOI's off the hook, thats for sure. I mean come on her observing you is just saying hey maybe next time you come to the gym you should workout with me.
Also your at the gym I'd like to think it'd rather be easier to go out for a shake than a drink. That's if it's an instant date.
go for Coffee If you get her number.
So next time you see her try igniting conversation and introducing yourself, after that you can probably ask her how long she's been going to the gym.
what's the worst that can happen when you introduce yourself to her?