Yo yo, this is my first post in what seems like years since I've been here. I was in the game a few years ago, then went off into oblivion doing other things, had a few girlfriends, a few lays here and there... but nothing like the commit I have for the game now. Now i'm taking this shit seriously. I have been in the field a minimum of 4 nights a week, thursday-Sunday, and a few day game sessions in between for about a month now.

A little about myself, I'm 25 from Australia, currently studying law and working at the same time. I'm 6'2 and decently good looking (not that it matters ) I've been in the Army for a few years and then I was kind of kicked out. I crashed my car drink driving and was sent to military alcohol rehab, then at the 30day rehab program I snuck out and got wasted with another dude a few days before graduation .
I've been to 12 different schools, the number is so high mainly because I moved around Australia alot as a kid so naturally I changed school alot, although I did all of my highschool in one place and I got kicked out of 2 or 3 schools because I just had a shitty attitude. I guess I've always kind of been a renegade.

I'm now at the point in life where I want to work for myself, I have no aspiration to finish my law degree or become a lawyer, but I have every aspiration to start my own pick up company and teach my fellow man how to get laid, so here I am trying to make it happen and that's really what this thread is going to be about.

I'm going to be writing as many field reports, lay reports, detailing exactly what happened, hopefully for your entertainment but so I can also live every moment again, analyze myself to get better and have a documented history of these occurences.

I already have a few (especially from the lays I've recently had gaming) reports which I'd like to write down since they are semi fresh in my mind. What's really holding me back right now is not approaching. The first two weeks I was approaching no worries, infact the first night out I went with my wings designated to gaming in the clubs I was on fire, and 4 weeks later I still haven't regained that form. It's annoying and I'm making changes to hopefully fix that.

I find I really respond to goal setting. I'm a big believer in writing down goals, writing down things you are grateful for and reading them before you go to bed and when you wake up. I've had profound experiences with this, not only in everyday life but with women aswell. Last year I was doing daily goals everyday for almost 2 months and one of those goals was to bang a 10, about 2 weeks into writing this down one came into my work, I got her number and fucked her that night ( I hadn't been gaming at all for years at this point) She was soon my girlfriend for about a month until I broke it off with her, and in that month I compeltely stopped writing down goals and my gratitude list and I have never regained that momentum again. Since then, about an exact year ago my life hasn't been the best and i've made some simple bad decisions.

This thread marks the day that I get my life back into order, to where it has been, in that upward spiral of abundance. A weakness of mine is commitment, or achieving too much too soon. If I achieve too much too soon generally i'll quit cos i'll get bored. I'm also scared of commitment, i'm not sure why, I think because I moved around alot as a kid i've found it hard to commit because somewhere in me doesn't want to bother because I may leave again. These are just excuses within me though and they're simply not good enough to be a valid reason why I ever fail.

I'm going to be as straight up as i can in this thread, i'm sure you will get that vibe from me anyway as I'm a no bullshit kinda guy. This also works against me as I can be "too straight forward" and not enough fun if you know what I mean, so I'm working on that and working on 'letting go'.

I also hope for this thread to serve as lessons for others who are in the game, so that you may not have to make the mistakes I will inevitably make.

Enjoy...

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Lay report 1:

I was at a bar with 3 other wings, and I had bumped into a really cool guy from San Diego (I'm Australian in an Australian bar) and we hit it off pretty quick and had a great conversation. He actually tagged along with me and my wings for the rest of the night. He was in his 30's and was pretty centred, we talked theory of the game and what not, it was cool. While I was talking to him one of my wings opened a set on a square table with two girls sitting down, it was right next to me, and my wing who opened it is probably the shyest out of us all, so it was really cool to see. He talked to them for quite sometime, until they all got up and I was introduced. They were 3 blonde Norwegians, one was quite tubby (pen), one was about a 6.5 but she had a really outgoing fun personality so that made her hotter(Eld), the other was the best looking of them all, she has an absolutely gorgeous face and quite small and petite(Vild). After we were all introduced we talked for a little while until we decided to head to another bar together.

We all tag along to the next bar and have good conversation along the way. The hottest of the 3 was already my target(Vild). I already assume girls are attracted to me pretty much 100% of the time as I think i'm really good looking and I'm funny and smart, it would be weird if they wern't attracted!. This isn't a brag, I would encourage you to feel and think the same way!
So I'm kind of playing the "I'm not that interested but youre cool to talk to" game at Vild. I'm trying not to show like I'm really interested in her, but at the same time when I do talk to her I'm giving her strong eye contact. I like this part of the game where I give strong eye contact, but i feel that If I was to show more interest and be into girls more, almost be vulnerable to them rejecting me and not being scared of it because I know I can handle it, I believe this frame would be much better.

We get a big table and we sit down and start talking as a group. I was at the head of the table (which I recommend you try to be in situations like this), this allows me to be the dominant male and I'm also easily able to communicate with everyone. I'm telling them I have a small penis and all kinds of bullshit. That I live under a bridge and I'm homeless. I mentioned that Justin Bieber was my all time favourite singer, and it turned out Eld was a huge fan of him, and we flirted over this. It was cool. I kept saying I loved him and she kept saying that she didn't believe me! I was kind of targeting her to show my personality as she was the most outgoing. I talked to vild for a little bit but we don't have that much chemistry, even now We end up splitting ways and they take off and me and my wings go home. They had swapped facebooks with them but I didn't get a number or any close at all, except a hug close if that counts?

I get home at like 3am and I have work at 630am. I'll tell you now, it's easier to work on 2-3 hours sleep then it is on 4-6 hours sleep. I've tested this as I usually work 630am Thursday - Sunday and thats when I game, so those days when I'm at work i've usually been out gaming the night before in the clubs. This is still ongoing and fucking annoying, but i'm commited so I'll deal with it hehe.

So yeh I get back from work at 11am and have a look at my facebook, and looky looky Vild the hot one had sent me a friend request on facebook. This is where I knew I had her hooked because she would have searched for me because she didn't know my name from the night before. I asked her about this later on and she went through one of my wings facebook friends list looking for a profile picture with a photo of me haha.

I was talking to Pen(the chubby one) on facebook for a little bit as she was the alpha of the 3, I gave her my number and told her to message me when they were out that night.

I get a message from Pen at about 10PM and i'm out with my wings, I ask where they are and me and the wings head there. We get there and they are leaving, we barely even speak and they head off. Nate (fairly inexperinced and didn't even know we are learning the game until the other night) wanted to chase them, but I told them we would not as it would look needy, and that if we play hard to get they will come to us. I knew they were interested anyway because of the facebook friend request and the effort they put into that. So we left to our favourite club at around 1030PM.

We get there and there are HEAPS of girls there. It has the best girl-guy ratio in the whole clubbing scene here. I have terrible dance floor game, so nothing was really happening. Until... about 2 hours later I get a message from Pen that they are here! LOL. I was like I fucking knew it!

Nate immediately goes over to there table and sits down and starts talking to them. This was good, as I could go over when ever I wanted. I met up with a best mate from schools sister who was on holidays who I hadn't seen for years, and she is smoking hot aswell, and we were on the dancefloor which was good for my image. I kind of wanted to fuck her but I couldn't because I could never fuck one of my buddies sisters or even ex girlfriends. I was just enjoying talking to her and catching up. She left and thats when I went to the table and sat down next to Vild.

We were sitting on stools, I sat next to her and faced her with my legs spread and her legs were in between mine, and I started touching her arm, touching her legs, really trying to build attraction. We were even touching eachothers teeth at one point. I went for the kiss but she kind of pulled away, I've learnt that sometimes you have to persist, and she was giving me plenty of IOI's. Strong eye contact, she was touching me back on the arm, on the leg, we were flirting pretty hard. I went for the kiss again and she responded and kissed me back. We flirted more at the table, I left for the d-floor once or twice, as did she, and we continued to flirt. It was fun.

It was about 3AM and the lights in the club turned on, it was time to leave. All my wings had left and so did her friends, it was just us

We left and we walked back to her place which was a 5 minute walk. I had got that information the night before so I knew that it wasn't far to hers. Although I wasn't expecting it to be so easy, I didn't get any resistance, we just walked straight back to hers, went into the elevator and went to her apartment. She showed me her room, then she showed me around the apartment which is fucking amazing. It has an unreal view of teh beach, and behind it is this massive lake where all these super big rich houses are, and then further inland theres these mountains. It truly has one of the best views I've ever seen. We were in the kitchen when her two friends got home, which kinda sucked because I thought they may make her feel like a slut and that's where I'd get resistance. We talked casually in the kitchen for awhile and then they left with a "we'll leave you two to it" type of vibe haha.

We went to her room, she left to go to the bathroom to get the makeup off her face or whatever, and then came back. She undressed into her bra and gstring. God damn she had a pretty good body and nice little perky tits. It's funny tho because I had been drinking a few beers that night and my dick is notoriously bad for not being able to get hard, so our first little fuck we didn't even fuck cos I couldnt get hard
She told me it was all good and that she's seen it happen before. We talked for awhile actually, and now that I look back on it she's looking for a boyfriend. We snuggled and I fell asleep. We tried to fuck an hour or two later when I sobered up and my dick got semi hard, but it was not a raging boner I could really pork her with, and I didn;t cum.

I fell asleep again, I woke up a few hours later and bailed as I had work at mid day.

This was my first lay, and it was the second weekend into this journey. It was on a saturday night. The next night I went out and got another lay, and we were able to walk 5mins back to her apartment too! I didn't drink that night so I was able to cum all over her, but that lay report is a different story.

These reports should be more detailed because I'll write them as soon as possible after it happens. This happened a few weeks ago and I had a few beers so there will be things I'm forgetting.

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Lay report 2:

This lay happened on a sunday, the next day after fucking the Norweigan. (this is about 3-4 weeks ago from today)

We were at the Beer Garden watching Ronda Rousey fight, whom is fucking amazing. Once again she wins the fight in like 30 seconds!

We had a few beers and what not, and were chilling on the pool tables. I was drinking water to sober up so I could drive home. Nate saw a table with two girls and he approached. I saw it was going well and I came over and introduced myself, as well as Coops one of our other wings. Things went well and we were all having a good time flirting with eachother and playing pool. It turns out one is a stripper at a local strip club and the other is a bartender at the same strip club, that's how they obviously know each other. I decided to go for the bartender, Kat. Megan, the stripper, was better looking but I felt the connection between myself and Kat was stronger, so I went for her. I had to leave, so before I did I grabbed Kat's number. We organised to all meet up later on that night at another local bar, and then they left.

As soon as they left, this dude from the pool table next to us came over and said "I knew they were going to leave!" and then tried to act all sympathetic to us. "I was going to ask them if they wanted to play pool aswell before you guys went over" he told us lol. I said "I'll bet you $100 they come back", he declined but rather offered to bet a drink. I obviously accepted. I soon left back home to chill for a few hours, (It was about 5PM). My other wings stayed.

I found out later that the girls did come back. Nate and the other dude who came over who made the bet with me, kept the bet between themselves seeing as I left. So Nate won a jug of beer out of it He said it was an awesome feeling seeing them come up the stairs and walk over to them and sit down with him at the table after this bet! The other guy paid up

I went home and on the way to the spot where we were meeting I get a message from Kat. I had her saved in my phone as little dick lover because as we were flirting I was giving her my little dick routine. She was trying to touch my dick to find out as alot of girls do when you tell them, and I was teasing her telling her she loved little dicks. So I get a messsage from her as I'm driving in "Are you coming little dick?:)"? and I respond with "otw" (on the way). I get there and 3 of my wings are there with the two of them. As soon as I get there Kat is taking a shot with pool and I walk up and smack her on the ass, talk to the wings and head to the bar and get a drink.

She was bascially giving me lap dances and I was teasing her with going in for the kiss but stop just before our lips touch so our faces are millimeters apart, she loved this, she loved being teased like this. I really like doing this now, going for the kiss and then stopping just before our lips touch and giving her a cheeky smile. It lets her know i'm not scared of going for the kiss whenever I want, but then it's just a tease. If you're reading this I highly recommend doing it.

I was sucking on her nipples in this pub too, until a security guard came over and threatened to kick me out if I kept doing that! I've never been kicked out of a venue for sucking on tits, so I was kinda disappointed we didn't because that would be an awesome story.

We left that venue and went to one of the clubs close by. We walk straight up and now I'm not even really talking to her or vibing with her or anything. I kind of think the job is done and I can pull her whenever I want, I also want to talk to other girls when I get to this new club, not to try and pull but because I love to game hard So we get there and me and a few wings are talking to these two german 7's in the smokers area. It was just casual conversation and I was escalating one of them, touching her ears and what not, until this other german dude interrupted and came in between the both of us. She wasn't really into me anyway so I wasn't bothered, and me and that dude actually had a pretty good conversation. I saw them kissing later on so I wasn't mad, I would have done the same thing!

We spend a little more time here and it's about 12AM. I decide to go and pull this Kat bitch now. I find her and I sit down, and now she's all over me. Like crazy shit. She's basically fucking me while I sit down on the sofa in the club. It was one of the craziest lap dances i've had, while she's licking my lips and shit, and she's asking me if I wanna fuck her in the ass and shit like this, and i'm STILL telling her I can't because I have a small dick and i'm a virgin I decide to lead her out of the club.

She told me she lived close by when were first met at the pool table so I didn't have to organise any logisitics. I told her to take me to her house. I didn't get any resistance from her either, she wanted to fuck more than I did. Thankfully i drank minimal alcohol, so I knew I was going to be able to fuck her good. We get to her house, into her room, she undresses, I undress and we start fucking. She was a pretty decent fuck, nothing special but I did atleast cum this time I spend probably half hour fucking her finish up and lie down. She was like getting angry with me, asking me to fuck her again, when i told her to chill that I just wanted to lay down for a sec, she was getting shitty again. I don't think she was legitimately pissed, it was some form of defence mechanism within herself as she just had a one night stand I use her anger to get out, telling her I'm leaving because she's angry. It was perfect actually because the night was still young and I planned on walking back to the clubs and linking up with my wingman again to continue to sarge.

I leave and message my two wings to see where they are (It's 12:45AM), one has left home and the other is at another club. I've got a sleeve and I know that I can't get into the club he's at because the have a no tattoo policy, so I just call it a night and walk to my car and go home.

I saw Kat again at another pub on Saturday night actually, and we spoke about our night! She was actually pretty cool to talk about it. It was unavoidable as she was at the table that is basically at the entrance. It was cool though. I don't wanna fuck her again, so i was trying to escape from the table, I went to the toilet, and as I was coming back one of my wings was talking to his mate who was with 3 other girls. Fuck it was perfect. I head straight over and introduce myself. The girl right next to me is a fucking babe and I immediately start tuning her. We flirt for abit, I know she's keen because she's giving strong eye contact, laughing at all my jokes and playing with her hair. When this happens I always give them less attention, and I give her friends more attention. I flirt with her friend that's next to her. We are all flirting for about 20mins, then they get up to leave which I was not expecting but the one I was tuning had work early in the mornign. She gets up and I number close her before she goes. I say "before you go, give me your phone so I can give you my number and we can get coffee sometime next week", she kind of looks at me weird then hands me her phone. I get it, call my phone, introduce myself formally to her and we shake hands, and she leaves. She was like a 9, and she had an incredible ass. I was pretty happy with it. I text her about half hour later,

"K this is F we'll get coffee sometime next week! Have fun at rebel", rebel is where she works and her first day at work was the following morning. She sends me a text make correcting me on the spelling of her name haha, I asked her guy friend how to spell her name before I sent the text and either he told me the wrong spelling, he didn't know it himself and was guessing OR he told me the correct spelling and I misheard it. The return text went like this "K(name correction) hahaha yes thanks I will"

I send her a text the next night "Hello gorgeous, when are you free for a quick coffee this week?" it's a monday so i figure to go for it early while it's still fresh and she agreed, but it's wednesday today and I haven't got a text back yet so I think it'll be a flake. If I don't get a text back, I'll call her this coming Monday, and if no answer I'll leave it at that. It's no biggie

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Today is Monday, and fuck me what a weekend! 3 days of going out solid and what a good time it was just on a whole.

A Sunday ago I think I may have already mentioned, I number closed this girl I briefly met with some wings when I ditched the stripper. Things didn't really kick off between us, I just didn't have the time to escalate at all, I was probably lucky to get her number.

I texted her a few times at the start of the week, and this is how it went down...



I send her a text just after she leaves so she has my number. The next day I go for the coffee because as I get her number I tell her we'll go for coffee, and i say to her

"I hope you like coffee"

K: "I love coffee"


Obviously no response and at this stage it's a flake. I decide to throw a 'hail mary' and try and spice it up by asking where she likes to be kissed, I'm really just self amusing here because I don't care, but she's hot enough to throw it






As you can see she's not into it at all. I decide to throw the very last 'hail mary' with the "No? Big Toe?" text. I had nothing to lose and everything to gain and most importantly I was pissing my self laughing when I sent it.



Now the funny thing is, is it's her birthday party on Saturday night in a high rise apartment in the middle of the city, my mate knows her and he gets an invite and he asks her if I can come along, she's gives it the all clear

That's not until Saturday though and there's Thursday night which is my mates 23rd, and Friday night out as always to game in the city.

So Thursday night is LOOSE, we go out to a local restaurant, eat and are just having a good time in the social circle. I ask this Norweigan girl I've been fucking to come along but she can't make it out until later. After Dinner we head to a local bar where it's $3 beers all night, so we decide to get our bithday boy super fucking wasted... and we succeed. The table we were sitting at was literally full of beers it was ridiculous. There was a pool table right next to us which we were all playing, the music was loud, the dance floor was on the other side of the table we were sitting at and the gorgeous Norweigans rocked up. Unfortunately I had work at 6:30am the next morning so I wasn't able to get drunk but I still had an awesome time. I was having a good time with the Norweigan I've been fucking. Man it was just an awesome night. I was push pulling the Norweigan like you wouldn't believe, I was getting her horny and I knew I had to leave and couldn't fuck her I wanted to continue to build the tension between us. I want to be the most amazing guy in her life and make her feel like no other man has.

So I leave, get up early and go to work.

Friday night comes and it's actually pretty quiet, I hit up a few girls with a new direct approach that one of the lads on this forum DirectMike told me about. My game wasn't exactly direct, I have had decent success with my game thus far, but looking back at it now I can absolutely guarantee I would have missed out on alot of pussy because I wasn't direct. There are a few opportunities I would have let pass because I wasn't direct and I played way too 'hard to get', when at that time I should have been going for it. Ohwell.

This direct approach is working alot better for me. I would literally open girls with "I'm attracted to you", some were into it, some wern't but more were more receptive. I had a 15 second make out using this approach.

I was walking towards the d-floor where there was a group of about 8 sitting at a two round tables put together with girls and guys. One girl was at the table but facing outwards, towards the way I was walking. I saw her and immediately approached her

Me: "I'm really attracted to you"
Her:" I'm attracted to you too, blah blah (she said something and I couldn't hear her)"
Me:"I have no idea what you just said all I can do is look at your lips and think about kissing you"
I leaned back, we have strong eye contact without saying anything and I smile at her with a cheeky grin

*Grab the back of her head, pull her hair slightly and kiss her*

This was literally in the span of 15 seconds. I stop kissing her and see this other girl with 3 friends at the bar, she has a sleeve and her friends are also pretty hot, so I bail on this chick and approach them. My wing joins me on the walk over to the bar as he was right beside me as this happened, he says "Good work man"

I see the girls at the bar and do exactly the same thing. We talk about tattoo's a little bit and I just wasn't that interested in her. We had zero chemistry, so I bail.

We walk over to this table near the d-floor as my wing got a jug of beer. As we are sitting there this 9 walks over with her ugly friend (just to clarify I hate sitting next to the d-floor drinking, it's normally seedy as fuck but the d-floor was dead at this stage) and I stand on my stool, point at her and tell her to come here. She comes over and I grab the back of her head, pull her hair a little and whisper in her ear "I'm really attracted to you"

She looks at me and laughs we flirt for abit and then she invites out to the smokers area as her friend smokes. We get out there, she walks over to a table with two other guys and starts talking to them, whom I assume were her friends. Me and my wing are literally standing there, she's got her back towards me and it's like she forgot all about me We bail soon after, it's late and I have work early again tomrrow morning so we drive home.

Now it's Saturday and i'm PUMPED for this party in the sky rise hotel. I finish work at 630PM and race home as quick as I can, I get my shirt ironed, showered and fix the internet for the house like a fucking man about to go to a party with hot girls! And that I fucking did. I had my shit together and my buddies pick me up and we head for the city. We park up and we head to the bottleo (liqour store for u yanks) and I get a 6pack of coronas, the other lads already have drinks sorted. I have no idea where we're going but my wing leads the way, and it turns out it's on the 14th floor of the Hilton, right next to the beach and a siiiiick view of the city.





That's the view there. So we get met by one of her dude friends at the bottom and he gets us in the elevator and takes us up to the room. I was expecting there to be alot of people, and especially alot of guys considering this birthday girl is fucking SMOKING. I was wrong, there was me, my wing and two other dudes, and 7 girls. It was ridiculous. We have a sick time, music pumping and we're playing drinking games. We're all just having a sick time. I'm casually chatting to all the girls and working them because I'm trying to fuck the birthday girl, even though she flaked on me! haha. She's easily the hottest. So I'm playing all these girls, throughout the night they all give me their phone so I can put my number in it and exchange facebooks. It was awesome and I felt like I was on fire. There was one which was a dead set green light to bang, but I'd rather pass it up so I can fuck her friend, the hot birthday girl.

We have an awesome night club hopping. Drinks are flowing and we're all flirting like crazy. We get into a cab and head to another suburb with clubs about 10mins away which is also on the beach. We get in and head to the dancefloor. I'm approaching a few girls at this stage, INFRONT of the girls I'm already flirting with. We head to the dancefloor and I see a nice blonde, I approach her on the dancefloor, tell her I'm attarcted to her, she says "I'm attracted to you too" and I go for the kiss, and we are making out ont he dancefloor. I let her go and go back to the group. 10 mins later I go and grab her again, pull her into the group and start making out with her AGAIN, I want all the girls I'm with to know that I can any girl I want, especially the birthday girl. I push her back to her friend and the night goes on.

We get a tram back to the clubs we were originally at and where the apartment is. So fucking random. We see some guy with 5 cops around him, handcuffed and 3 police cars around him. One of the lads holds the tram up so more of the girls can get on, until the security guard gets to him and pushes him in. We tram it back and wait until the other girls get there. The group of girls has grown at this stage, as we meet alot of her friends out. The group is now like 13 girls and only us 4 guys, It was fucking amazing. I've never experienced it before.

Anyway we get to the last club we go to, and we're standing in line. I had been flirting with all the girls except the birthday girl, I kind of ignored her and felt like I probably should have after she flaked me. She's seen me kiss a few girls by now. I wasn't butthurt about the flake and that's not why I was kinda ignoring her, I just genuinely thought that she wasn't keen so why keep persisting? I had a quick convo with her at the last club as we were lined up, and inbetween us talking i'm obviously flirting with her friends, hugging them and what not, showing her I can have some of her friends if I want and that I'M THE BRAND GIRLS WANT.
She actually tells me "You're a president", and I had no idea what she was on about, I thought I miss heard her actually. I ask what a 'president' is, and she says that when I talk people listen and do what I say I take this as a good thing and leave it at that. She's actually giving me attitude which I like and I'm giving it back. We head in and we are in a group on the dancefloor dancing and just having a good time dancing.

I don't think I'm going to bang the birthday girl, especially because I know she's sharing a bed with a few of her friends. I feel like it's mission accomplished at this stage and have no need to hang with them any longer. I need sex. I text the Norweigan and ask where she is, she tells me and I bail and meet up with her.

From here we bar hop a few more times, it's like 2:30am at this stage and lock out comes at 3am. On my way to see her, I see an aquiantence and ask what he's doing, and if he wants to tag with me and try and hit my Norweigans friend up. He comes but he's hopeless. He's got no chance fucking her friend haha.

The Norweigan lives in the city which is awesome as it's a 5minute walk back to hers. She takes me home and I bang the fuck outta her.

Sunday comes, I leave her place and we see a movie later that day and get dinner. I leave with out banging her again, I was just too tired and had work early the next morning and really didn't feel up to it. I walk her back to her house and leave for my car and go home. What a weekend.


So I text the birthday girl today






And she's more receptive and I know she's attracted to me. So I continue the convo hoping to build some sexual tension so I can bang her







She's the one in the black dress in the video to give you an idea of how good it is
















Brit is another girl in the video who is a professional dancer. She was the green light I could have fucked, but I know if I fucked her I couldn't bang the hot one as they live together.
I give them both a compliment to let her know she has to work for me. I give her some push pull tell her she's sexy but has a bitchy side of her, which I told she had that night anyway and that she would be much cooler if she was just nice. I've later found out she's known to be a bitch so she needs to get some attitude back.


This is where we are at, I may have missed some important details to sum up the whole situation, but it's late and I have work early so I'm going to leave it at this.

What i'm most proud of my self, is that I actually don't care anymore about what these girls say or do, or if that reject me. I'm at the stage now that I have options, and if one girl doesn't want me it actually doesn't matter. I couldn't care less and I think this is rubbing off on them and causing even more attraction. Most importantly though it's good for me, I'm much more carefree, confident and present. The fear is much, much less than what it was when I had no options.

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Just having a quick thought about game.

When you've got good game and you've got a girl attracted whom you've been seeing for a little while and fucking, but you haven't got many different girls in your life which you're fucking, this can be bad, as you may lead the girl on into her thinking you want a relationship, which in turn will break her heart and you'll lose a pussy to bang.

Just a thought of warning I had which I wanted to note down here, as I've had this problem before. Giving girls too much 'special' attention because I really am having a good time with her and enjoying her company, and she see's us evolving into exclusivity. You'll soon become a cunt, she'll want nothing to do with you and no more bang bang for you.

Everything in moderation.

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Well that's annoying that the pictures I posted above of the text exchange don't work and I can't edit the post. Ahwell.

So it's been a few since I've posted in here and there's a few girls going on. I've been dating a hot norweigan for 6 or so weeks now, I'm not really sure. I've also had a few other lays, I just haven't been gaming like I use to because i've enjoyed spending time with the norweigan. It's not oneitus, i've still been going out 4+ nights a week, it's just gone this way i guess.

So anyway, last friday night I hit a club with a new wing who has really helped me step up into another level. We have fairly different styles, I'm more laid back about approaching and I generally open situationally when a girl is close, but i'm not so proactive about approaching and going from girl to girl. Well this dude is and I really enjoyed it.

We get to the bar and head to the 'elbow', this is normally the busiest place in the club and has the most traffic. This is where I like spending time and I can situationally open alot of girls as they walk by, I can grab their arm and pull them in.

First set I open at the elbow are two HB8's, both were brunette (i'm a blonde lover), I pull the hot one over and it goes to shit fairly quickly. I go back to the crew and we do shots. The new wing rocks up, and we head out side. We head to a table of 4, the hottest being a 6, the others being 5 or below, they were not good at all. We sit on each end and engage in convo, it was boring and they didn't seem too interested. I had drunk a few beers by this stage, which is annoying because my game goes down hill when I drink. We chat more and me and the wing both look at each other and signal it's time to go.

It was weird because these chicks were butt ugly and really uncool. It's actually pretty typical and something you'll find out, hot chicks are ALWAYS wayyy cooler to talk too. It's counter intuitive, I know.

We get up and head straight over to two HB8.5s, ones blonde, ones a brunette. They're sitting down at a bench sitting on stools, we engage in general conversation, they were both 18 and just outta school. They both bring up they have BF's pretty quick. We talk more, blonde one acts interested in me, i keep talk more to the brunette, blonde keeps asking me questions about what I'm telling the brunette. I'm standing up, and the blonde asks me to grab the seat behind me, I try and tell her to get it for me, we have banter over it and then two of their high school guy friends come over. No cock block, they are just catching up. We both decide nows the time to leave.

I get a text from my buddy and he tells me their at the next club. Me and the wing i'm with decide to do so street game before he leaves and I meet up with my other buddies.

By this time i'm fairly warmed up, and more sober. We walk the streets just analyzing what happened, which I highly recommend you too do with your wing as it helps HEAPS.

We finish analyzing and a blonde walks by, he looks at me and goes "Are you gonna hit her up?" with a challenging grin. I don't hesitate and run straight for her, running from behind, I get in front of her, stand front on and say "I'm not a weirdo, I just wanted to tell you that I'm attracted to you". She smiles, puts her hand out and introduces herself, and asks me what my name is. We exchange names, I ask her how her night is, more fluff talk. I give her strong eye contact, I ask her a question to line up the kiss close. She answers, I tell her "I have no idea what you just said, all I can do is look at you lips and think about kissing you", I put my hand behind her head and we start kissing. We exchange numbers, kiss again, I bail and tell her to have a good night.

We head into the club and I'm just an approach machine, approaching everything insight that I was genuinely attracted too. I was now fully warmed up and ready to go. I hookup with 4 girls and number close them all.

so far 2 have flaked, I've got one date tomorrow with the best looking one of them all. She's this little pocket rocket blonde, she had a midriff on with those two lines down the sides of her stomach near her abs.

I didn't text her until today (4 days) and this is how it went down.






Short, simple and to the point. So we'll see how that goes.


The girl I stopped and made out with in the street went like this.
Also at this stage I had already texted Jessie and set the date up with her, I'm also busy for the next couple of days so I figure I try and fuck her tonight, and if she can't I figure I can just tell her to contact me when she's ready, I'm in no rush as I have other options.






I also number close this biitch on Sunday night, which I find amazing because I was so fucking wasted. Me and my friend got kicked outta 2 different clubs hehe. I end up going back to the norweigans that night, was too drunk to fuck her haha, wake up and bang her then. Good times. Here is the text exchange with Clare the one I don't even remember closing






So we'll see what happens, if she texts back she does and if she doesn't she doesn't
We'll see how tomorrow night goes and I'll update

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"A superior man sees his womans moods not as a curse, but as a challenge and an amusement."

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So last night I had a date with Jessie...


Which is this bird here








She sends me a text a few hours before our meetup to confirm, so things are good. So I shower at 6ish because I have to leave at 630 to get there, it's about 15 min drive to get there, so I get ready and am lying on my bed reading before I go, and I get a text message from her saying she's been stuck at work and we'll meet at 8. It's a little annoying because she left it until 30mins to reschedule.. but I say ok, see you then.

I'm planning on being late now for fucking me around So I get there 5 minutes late, walk into the bar where we suppose to meet, and she's not there I'm acquaintances with one of the bar dudes there so I chill with him. I send her a message when I get there and tell her I hope she has an ID, as she said she may have lost it at the club I met her last friday. No response. 8:15 rocks up and she's still not here and no text message to say she'll either be late or can't make it.. so I bail. I'm thinking i've been stood up. I'm not too angry about it, I had work at 6;30 the next day (today), so I'm actually happy i'll get a decent night sleep. I would also tell my buddies to leave if she's 15 minutes late without a text, you should never let a girl disrespect you like that..

I'm driving home and around 8:30 she sends me a text.. here's how it went down









I lol'd when she sent me that picture of her facebook... like I'm going to add her She has to earn being my friend on facebook. I don't just let anyone in. Although it was nice to stalk her FB. She's a model so yeh.. it explains her behavior. I might see her again and give her one more chance now tho

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So lads, big changes are coming.

Today I move into a dream apartment overlooking the ocean, overlooking the mountain range and a 10min walk from where the hottest clubs are in town as well as a major tourist mall. It's an amazing time in my life right now.

I have been living with my ex girlfriend for 8 months. 4 of those months we have been split up, I would have moved sooner except we are both on a lease, I couldn't afford to pay my share of rent here aswell as at a new place. We have come to a good conclusion and I will be able to afford moving out quite easily now. Life is good. It's lucky that we are still very good friends. It's hindered my game though as I haven't been able to pull girls back to my place... holy fuck what a hinderence this has been. Every lay I've had I've had to go back to theirs or no pull. In the back of my head I know if I pull a girl I can't take her home, it's not good on the psychology of yourself but I've battled through it.. It's all over now and a new chapter of my life is beginning.

Now I'll be able to pull girls to my place.. which is a short walk from where all the action is. FUCK YEAH.

Today I also met a new mentor of mine. My first mentor actually. I had written down some goals a few weeks ago and getting a mentor which is involved where my purpose wants to go, it's perfect how it worked out. He's an inventor, he's won nearly every award in his field he possibly could. He's been exactly where I wanna go. We also get along really well which is just perfect. It's funny how when you start writing down goals, writing out a mission statement of where you want to be in 3 months, writing down a gratitude list and reading this when you wake up and when you sleep how quickly things happen and fall into place.

It's freaky. I've experienced this before last year as I've written above, I just never stuck to it and lost all momentum. It works though, if you're reading this try it!

Write down a list of goals(bucket list) you want to achieve. Think BIG. One of my goals is to orbit earth in space, and another is to climb mt.everest to give you an idea of how big you should be thinking. Another one is to "change the world forever for the better of mankind".

Next, write down a gratitude list of all the things you are grateful for. This reminds you of what you already have and appreciate. This makes you happier and in a better vibration so when opportunities come along you are thinking at your optimum, you'll notice opportunities that wern't there before.

Workout everyday. I have been doing a pushup, situp and squat regiment everyday for 3 weeks now. This makes you more confident in yourself because you are becoming the best version of yourself. Lets face it, when you're strong and you feel good and look good you do good!

Eat nutrious, don't eat shit food. The last time I had junk food was weeks ago. Instead I have been eating raw vegetables cut up and stirred in a bow with avocado and some kind of dressing. It's fucking SPARTAN food. Eat the best possible food you can. They say vegetables are good for you, so why don't we eat as much veggies as we can? They're also fucking cheap.

last of all is to give back and help when you can. I don't know how many times I've walked through a shopping mall car park to stop and help an old lady pack her groceries away for her in the boot of her car. Give compliments to people freely, make everyone around you feel good about themselves. Listen to them. Nothing shits me more than people who just wanna talk about themselves.

Last of all, read book, watch educational videos, listen to educational podcasts. Add knowledge to yourself. Become the smartes most well read interesting person you know. Knowledge is power.

So in short,
Workout
Eat nutritious food
Write down and read your goals x2 a day
Write down and read your gratitude list x2 a day
Add knowledge to yourself
Give back and help others

Do this shit everyday and I promise your life WILL GET BETTER.

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