A date with A.
After a brief chat on Tinder, we decided to meet for a beer: her red long coat was a striking contrast between the grey buildings of the main square and the pale sky under the light autumn rain. A tall, confident blonde, she was the perfect example of a typical east-german girl.
We moved to the Hard Rock Café, and in the meantime I laid the ground for a later secondary comfort building location, keeping coherent at the same time to my previous Tinder chat. I achieved that quite easily in this way:
Being new in Warsaw and having received quite a complicated amount of matches do deal with them singularly (137 in 10 days), I standardized the approach for research purposes - yeah, not very romantic, but it seems to work
1)
"I just arrived in Warsaw, how's like living in here? "
2) A handful of messages in order to get to know her better and evaluate subsequent moves
3)
"Also...I'm still looking for a nice pub to call "mine" during my stay here in Warsaw! I mean, they're all nice, but I have still to find one where to feel at home, just like the "Na Druga" I had in Sopot. Do you have any suggestion?"
4) Evaluate her answer, thank propose a meeting
What's your opinion on this kind of approach? How do you suggest to improve it, and which are its flaws?
Anyway, the meeting went on smoothly and by the manual, following precisely the MM. I won't bother you with a de Kltailed explanation, but I can PM you if needed. Also, because it was ultimately not interesting: she was a good conversationalist, a nice person, and an interesting girl under many aspects, but ultimately our meeting left me unsurprised. More than finding a human connection, I trained.
She had to meet her friends, I had to meet mine, and we decided to see each other again the following week. Kiss-close, and completely forgot about her since yesterday, like that evening never happened.
Klub Park
"Hey, if you bring enough people you'll get a complimentary bottle of vodka!" That was enough to convince me, and I managed to sum up a few friends to follow me to the Klub Park, a barely decent club south of the city center. As the usual Warsaw night out, I remember half of it, but there's an anecdote I would like to point out.
We are on the dancefloor, a group of friends of both sexes, trying to follow the rising beats of the house music pouring loudly from the speakers, while I notice a guy trying speaking in the ears of one of our girls. She ignores him, and the guy simply grabs her hips. She's not pleased, not at all, but she's small and afraid. A thing that I've never accepted is rudeness, and having worked as a bouncer I intervened almost mechanically. The guy seems to understand that's better to leave, and goes away, while the girl whispers "thank you" and moves closer to me. The scenes repeat itself a few other times, with more rude guys and more afraid girls, until I realize that around me and my two buddies there are 11 girls.
Which are your impressions about that situation? Was it a positive or negative behaviour?
The night proceeds smoothly with closer dances, a few kisses, planned day 2s and...nothing more. Even that night I couldn't lay a girl, and I couldn't even get properly drunk.
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