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Why should you left PUA?
First of all,the idea of that girls should be the ones who are needy instead of you is correct,but it has wrong origination,which I'll explain later.
PUA will give you some information that you have to know.For example,you should never put all hope in one woman etc...Now,why is bad about PUA?Large amount of us go to PUA when they have some problem,or they don't know what to do.I'm not saying that it's bad.Really,I m not.I want to say that you have to be yourself.Simply as that.Everything happens for a reason,and if you are dumped by girl,you should belive that God wants all the best for you.So,if the girl dumps you,it means that you really deserve better,and eventually you find a girl which is really set for you.
You really need to be yourself.Imagine that you are in relationship,and all the time you are asking should I be do this or that.Now,if you get some advice that you don't like,and still do it,is it right?Even if things then get better?Ask yourself..
This is vague bullshit if I'm honest, no offence Lance.
You say you have to be yourself, but why not become the best possible version of you? Life is all about learning, why not learn all you can about dealing with people, dealing with women and about living the best life you can. That's the essence of this community, men striving to leave their past self behind and become the best possible version of themselves. We are all still ourselves, we aren't getting sex changes. We're learning, we're improving, we're developing and we're progressing. We might have adopted new habits, and weeded out some bad ones, but we're still the same people...we are still being ourselves.
-D
CHAT
