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Demote her to FWB.
" I said "What's up, dude?" and he just grunted at me. He went to her house one time, found a rubber in the floor where I'd fucked her the day before, and flipped shit, apparently. Always telling her rude shit about me, "
You are getting AMOGED!
Two choices:
1 Confront him (if you can take him, or have the balls to hold you ground):
WTF dude? You sound like a cow? "Moooo"?
2 Demote the GF:
"I'm going places in life.I don't need Quido or any other goons and drama, not my fault they have nothing to live for. We can hang out but I'm from a classier side of town, babe.
Maybe. The whole think had a "pouting" vibe to it. It was more like an "Ehh" noise. He may have just been saying "hey" in a very quiet tone or something. No idea, honestly. He wouldn't even look me in the eye. Had that watery eyed look (he was in his car the whole time, never got out). I haven't seen him since then, and don't really plan on seeing him again. Told her I wasn't going to put up with her disrespecting me, or being around people who do, for no other reason than he's jealous that I'm fucking her. Though I do feel that the fact that she'd even want to be around someone like that is disrespectful to me.
I have the balls to hold my ground, because I always have a 9mm pistol strapped in my belt
But that's also a reason I'd want to avoid conflict. Extremely unsafe to get into some sort of fist fight. I'd pull my gun out if a physical escalation started. Not to intimidate (which is illegal as fuck), but the off chance that it could fall out of the holster during a scuffle. Be a perfect chance for some idiot to grab it and fire it.
I guess to delve a little deeper into this scenario, he says shit through text to her like "I'm just gonna leave this town, there's nothing here for me..." "I won't go drink and drive if you come with me..." That kind of stuff. Trying to get her to leave my house and go off with him. Then she gets mad at him about it. He apologizes after they get into it. She tells him she isn't ever going to date him, and he retaliates with the "I'm fine with being just friends" stuff after it gets hashed out. Then that loop repeats a few weeks or so later.
She took me out to dinner yesterday. Spent 80 bucks on it, then paid for a few things I got at the grocery store;as sort of an apology. Then we went to my grandma's for a bit and she washed her dishes. She only makes like 10 bucks an hour, so I thought that was nice of her.
You, her, him...all the same. They're stuck in a crazy cycle, you 2 are stuck in a crazy cycle.
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I guess to delve a little deeper into this scenario, he says shit through text to her like "I'm just gonna leave this town, there's nothing here for me..." "I won't go drink and drive if you come with me..." That kind of stuff.
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Now she's begging me to stay with her. Saying she's going to drive over here after drinking
He blows up at her, she blows up at you.
This is the cycle you're in, break up to make up, pissed off one day to get back together. Thats them. You can either get off the rollercoaster or continue on, hoping it will change.