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 Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 1:54 am Post subject: VERY complicated situation: Best "Girl" Friend |
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A VERY long story shortened down.
I've known this girl for a long time and she knows everything about me, I know everything about her. Which definately works against me, as a more experienced PUA has already told me.
I've discussed almost all of my knowledge about PU with this girl as well. However, I pushed one of my friends to practice game on her and he isn't even attracted to her in an attempt to get over my emotions for her (bad idea obviously. I didn't get jealous, but the feelings still messed up my game).
Very recently, I steamrolled her with my emotions telling her the most recent fact and that I actually was the one who liked her, how I felt that she has shrugged me off over the years, and that I will not continue with these feelings because they're only holding me back (VERY AFC of me, but this is the last hurdle to get on with my long-wanted PUA lifestyle).
I made her confused about the whole situation, she feels used, and the reason she lost interest in me because she thought that I only wanted 9 and 10 girls and she feels that I am of higher value than she is.
I will be meeting with her in a day or two, which I told her to. And that we shouldn't talk until that meeting in person.
Whenever I started this journey I knew that I'd lose a lot of friends becuase I'd be completely tweaking how I display my personality with confidence and finaly be able to live life rather than just observe it.
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I realize I've completely fucked my chances with her, but there's still that minuscule chance that something positive could come out of this. However, I basically spilled my guts on her because I need to get over these emotions I have for her before I can move on with my self-improvement; no matter what the temporary emotional damage may be (coming from just dropping her out of my life completely).
I have a relative idea, confidence, etc. of what I'm going to do, but she already feels inferior to me due to a low self-esteem because so many guys have used her and I shocked her into realizing that it can happen no matter how prepared you are (even knowledge of the very pickup techniques that were used on her). I probably should have gamed her back, but I just couldn't take it any longer.
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