Confidence. Everybody is insecure about atleast something, "most people carry their insecurity within themselves and it's eating a hole in their soul. I carry it outside of myself, for everyone to see" -casanova.
Once you have nothing to hide you'll be free. And this will lead to being authentic and original->VALUE VALUE VALUE

sick quote

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The whole living authentically and doing what you feel thing works great once you've actually mastered how to be an alpha, non-needy, confident guy with preselection, abundance, witty one-liners for shit tests and a large circle of friends, etc. If you tell a total AFC to just do what he feels he'd probably just ask a girl to have sex with him and then run away crying when he gets rejected. If you tell a guy to hide nothing and just be himself then he'll likely start spewing his life story at some chick who'll be like "who the fuck is this guy telling me all this shit why do I care"? OR worse he'll go up and just say "your tits are huge and I really wanna cum all over them later" because then he's being honest about how he feels.

Direct game is totally great, but it still has to be done in a certain way. You're telegraphing your interest, but you're doing it in a very confident way and that builds attraction. You also move quickly into qualification, and this screening process shows you have abundance and this makes her qualify herself to you, framing the interaction as her winning you over.

Furthermore, even in a relationship, where you can truly be yourself and not care what she thinks anymore, it still keeps the momentum going if you are still a bit of a mystery, if you don't give everything away, if you are hot and cold, really into her and then distant. This keeps her always thinking about you, guessing, wondering, and working for your affection. If you just lay yourself out there completely then there is no more challenge, no intrigue, and no fun.

p.s. Casanova quotes are so done

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All I read are assumptions and doom scenario's.

There's a risk to everything, and calibration should never be forgotten


Where did I mention direct game?
I never said you should pour your heart out to a girl.

Idk what's up with the constant assuming the worst....

The message 'have nothing to hide' is concerning shit tests or other bullshit a girl might throw at you.

When you don't have any shields up, you have nothing to defend yourself against, thus making you live more freely. And whatever you do will more genuine as it's coming from your core.

And it's okay to give into a girl sometime, infact it makes good game perfect.

I think you forget too quickly how counterintuitive a lot of PU methods are because you're so used to using them. I understand where you're coming from as a vague kind of inner game thing to think about once you have some mastery of this stuff, but for the AFC this is about as good advice as saying "be yourself." If you tell a guy to not have anything to hide, and he knows nothing else about pick up, then I guarantee you the first thing he will do when he gets a shit test from a girl is start explaining himself to her, thereby killing his game. This is a natural reaction you have to make an effort to train yourself out of - FACT.

Most people coming here who want to learn are most likely unsure of themselves, reactive, needy, lacking value, lacking abundance, lacking preselection, unsure of how to sexually escalate, and have no real standards for what they want in a woman other than attractiveness and willingness to sleep with him. I think these people SHOULD hide a considerable number of things about themselves from women they are approaching and use tried and tested methods to bring out only those aspects of themselves that build attraction in the right way.

p.s. the only time to give into a girl is when you've said "you can swing by my place to grab that CD real quick but then you gotta run cuz I have to be up early tomorrow" and she ends up pressuring you for sex

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Ok, then maybe he should just put a disclaimer: "Not for newbies". I admit that a lot of people come here because they're AFC, but every piece of advice can be misinterpreted if they're dumbasses.

For example: Escalate faster= give her a creepy slap on the ass before she sees you, Talk louder= yelling to get people's attention and looking needy, etc.

Hopefully, most people will benefit from the post and there will be few who screw it up.

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