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sandman808
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 Posted: Thu Sep 13, 2007 10:44 am Post subject: Using Talents as DHV , part 2 (in the club) |
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Say that you go to a club or bar that have a DJ and dance floor. You're probably the best dancer in the building.
1) Since approaching girls on the dance floor is near impossible (they can't hear you or think you're creepy trying to dance with them) , how would you best go about using this for personal DHV without looking like you're trying to show off?
2) Should that person be using more dancing related openers/negs? at club: "Hey, did you come here to sit down and be boring or to dance?"
3) any other tips / strategies / lines / openers you would use?
thanks
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Chikito
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Ok first of all: I love opening on the dancefloor. Its beyond fun. Its also very very simple.
Ok if any of you read the decent posts here you will know that 55% of all comunication between one person and another is Body Language, so its all about confidence on the dancefloor.
What are the simple rules of attraction?
1. Your having more energy and fun than them, they automatically want that.
2. You need to look like your having the most fun in the world. Social proof doesnt hurt here either, dance with some female friends etc.
3. Confidence, dont be scared to get in the middle of the dancefloor and shake your ass. Im half philipino and thats my excuse for shaking my ass alot. I can dance salsa style and EVERY girl wants me to teach them.
4. Dance as if your partner and you (or just you) is the only person in the world. Remember your having too much fun to care about what other people think of you.
If you do these things correctly, you can open like I do. By just making eye contact, smiling, and holding out my hand to her to dance with. Fuck grinding thats total AFC just dance for fun you can isolate her later. "I need a drink ill be over there" start walking away but keep hand contact, so as to pull her away too. OR you can just glance at her then sorta indicate with your head to a seat and smile saying 'Im tired lets go sit'.
Also if your target is sitting down and you wana open them to come dance with you. Go dance first and let her see you, then if you've played your cards right and seen dancing with other girls, and having alot of fun etc you should just be able to walk/dance past the bar and hand out your hand and smile, if she doesnt come it doest matter you just shrug, her loss and go grab another girl. 
I cant find it now but I Know there is a video out there of good dancefloor game! Help me find it! |
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Midnight24
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Best thing to do is make yourself known on the dance floor. Me and my friend can have a group of girls actually stop dancing just to watch us. Females will be more inclined to dance with a guy who is already dancing than have some guy thats standing all night who decides to grind on her at some random moment.
The more fun you appear to be having is the more likely they'll want to partake in whatever your doing. What I usually do when I get the girl to stop dancing and watch me (as long as she has a smile on her face and your not humiliating yourself where you're just weird) is extend my hand toward her and in an inviting manner have her join in. Its always worked for me.
Make sure you're the life of the party. |
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RUSH
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Several years back I made friends with a complete natural. I ended up winging for him before I knew what a wing was...
Since he was an excellent dancer we would pratice dances to all the most popular songs. Copy the moves from the video and other stuff. When the dance floor wasnt crowed and a song came we practiced to we go do the routine. We would have women come up to us later and ask us to dance because we were there to have fun just like they were and it opened so many doors. Didnt even have to work at it. |
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