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jamo
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 Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 5:33 pm Post subject: using bubble theory |
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| when using the theory of interacting with a female on a one to one level and elevating yourself above the crowd by negging everyone around you to your target ,do you find the closing harder than if it were a normal conversation involving her in an NLP for example and if so what advice can you give |
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Monkey
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| Posted: Sat Aug 05, 2006 12:39 am Post subject: |
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Alright. That's a pretty jargon-heavy way of asking the following: If I'm focusing on my target and ignoring/negging her friends, is it harder or easier to close than if I focus on her friends and utilize NLP?
I always suggest approaching your target first. Now, a lot of methods tell you that you should approach everyone except your target and play off her jealousy. Honestly, the latter is easier, but we're not in the game because it's easy, are we?
If you focus on your target, do not neg her friends. Engage her friends. Befriend her friends. Let them know that you're not a creepy serial killer out to take the target to a dark alley. But make it clear, through your body language and subtle hints, that your target is with you. If you can, have her introduce them to you; it solidifies this image in their heads. Every time they see you, they will think of you as "That guy with Debby."
That way, when you move to isolate, it won't come as a surprise. They're expecting it, and they're always alright with it if she is. In fact, you can even isolate all sneaky-sneaky, and they won't think a thing of it because she's with you.
And I never use NLP. If I had to sink to hypnotizing women to sleep with me, I'd just neuter myself and be done with it. I'm sure it's powerful, but I'm not in this for the power. I'm in this because it's a challenge and it's fun. ^_^ |
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Kurent
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You have group theory wrong, Jamo. You want to neg your target while befriending the obstitcles.
Regarding NLP, the whole reason its good is that people can't tell. When you talk about the perfect guy, point to yourself. If you ever say "its huge" point to your cock. things like that. There are crazy NLP patterns that you can memorize, but they are a little more sneaky. |
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dorian
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Monkey, what about if you become so close to her friends that it seems they all want you to BE with the target more than the target herself??
this happens to me right now. the other day I took the girl to a concert and at the end of the day it was me and all her friends laughing. we weren't holding hands or any kino and I felt like a real asshole for spending money to "hang around".
now, to topic. negging friends is not good especially if you are negging the girl too!! but I did the exact opposite....damm |
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