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web-head99
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 Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 4:49 pm Post subject: US Noob in Japan...nice to meet you |
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Hi I'm Zack
I'm from Detroit MI, but currently I'm living in Japan for about a year...one of my house mates lent me the book "The Game". I remember hearing about PUA's from that reality show on VH1 sometime back, but I never knew so much of this stuff was, well, real. Even reading the book it was a bit to take in....but anyway suffice it to say I'm here because I suck at the dating scene 
My last g/f was...well years ago (high school). She was crazy but well being my 1st g/f y'know it was like "finally". I'm reading Double your Dating now and I gotta say, what I thought I knew means jack-shit now. But the problem arises in that I'm in Japan until Oct. I've heard of PUA's being able to move their magic international style, but I wonder whats the 1st step. From reading these books I know the first step if I was back in the ol' US of A but here, hmm...
Sorry I'm off topic, it's nice to be here and I hope I learn some valuable information to boost my skills (or lack thereof) |
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Vedere
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Welcome on the forum.
I don't live in the US either and I can make it work in the country where I live normally and in the country where I'm at the moment.
What is holding you "internationally"? |
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web-head99
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| Like how Mystery and the others go to different countries and go...uh, sarging (I need to learn all the words first I guess) |
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horton
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| I'd love to go over to Japan and sarge! Welcome dude! |
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nanoelite007
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| Asian chicks are kinky and stutty. i hear there pretty simple to win over.. flattery works best they say.. |
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web-head99
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The ones who are gaijin (foreigner) hounds yeah, but some are just sweet girls...those are the ones I'm trying to meet. But I fall flat on face or freeze up. I know enough Japanese to kick start a conversation but closing is difficult
Anywho today my housemate took me to a local club in Shibuya, which is known for their gaijin hunters. The problem was it was dead as hell. 3 girls in wannabe hip-hop gear were dancing (with no ass of course) and other black guys were poppin and lockin all over (*note: I'm black too, and the fact I can't dance hurts my chances here). Anyway, my housemate was giving me tips but it was in one ear and out the other because I was feeling like a wallflower. It never hit me until I started reading The Game and the forum posts that I was doing the same thing as all the others.
Yeah maybe I'm not hyper geeky or overly desperate, but I was making the same mistakes. My Japanese isn't bad-bad so I can easily ask a girl "how are you?", "Are you from around here?", etc. But I choked, and I felt it. I actually wanted to rely on "liquid courage" to help me move to someone.
I guess it's like that Nick-guy said, "You have to admit defeat first" and today I do. I cannot willingly approach a girl without choking and diving head first into the friend zone, and as such I need help. So maybe by admitting I have a problem I can get on the road to recovery.  |
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