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lennon
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 Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 11:02 am Post subject: Turning Looks of Pity into Looks of Interest |
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Hey fellas, you can call me Lennon. So here is my deal: Most of my life women have found me attractive (I mean, no Brad Pitt but cute) and getting them was never really an issue HOWEVER, I was always the nice guy loser so keeping them was. Then on November 30, 2005 I was on my way to a club in the city when I rolled my Honda Accord 5 times; the first roll ejected me through the sun roof and on some subsequent roll my torso was crushed breaking my back just above my waist rendering me a paraplegic. In the 2 years since I have had 2 short lived girlfriends and it's gone from "he's cute" to "that is such a shame, he's cute too". I vow to walk again but that is going to take a while and I am tired of being alone and I'm not getting any younger at 28. I picked up a copy of "The Mystery Method" by Mystery and am in the process of reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss aka "Style". I think getting some game is the right thing for me. A wheelchair has a way of sucking the life and self-confidence right out of ya man. I haven't approached one girl since my accident but I think it's time I start. I look forward to hearing and learning from all of you. Your New Friend, "Lennon"  |
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chio
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Welcome lennon.
It doesn't matter how you look or if you have any disabilities, it's how you look at life.
This guy, Sean Stephenson, is an inspiration to me. He's a friend of David DeAngelos. You can find his site at |
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lennon
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| Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 3:00 pm Post subject: thanks |
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| thanks, I'll check him out... |
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Crasher
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dude I was in a similar situation I got in a rollover accident where my car flipped four times and landed on my arm and crushed my shoulderblade for a year and a half I had the cast the size of a suitcase on my dominant arm. I was depressed. All those people who said poor him I just got pissed at.
The thing is let them feel sorry for you. ONLY FOR A SPLIT SECOND then completely change their POV in a heartbeat I highly reccomend cocky comedy for you because it shows how easily you can turn a situation around. If your funny crack a joke neg them in a funny way example.
hb: oh Im so sorry about you what happened
lennon: why the hell should I tell you, your just going to have to by my book "Paraplegic diaries: story of kicking girls who ask stupid questions."
hb: haha
they'll start to see past your physical state and become attracted to you on a deeper level. remember dont tell them your life story until you got past the attration stage then telling them about your accident in the comfort stage will get them on a deep connection with you.
Im not sure on where to classify a sympathy plea I beleive its either a shit test or a neg though they don't mean to do it if you accept their behavior it shows them a sign of weakness.
here's a couple of openers
lennon: excuse me can I please cut in front of you in line
hb: aww sure you can
lennon: wow you are such a pushover (neg)
hb: what no Im not blah blah blah
lennon: (bump them) hey why did you bump into me
hb: blah blah
lennon: oh whatever you ever heard of sexual harassment if not my lawyer will tell you in court
hb: haha oh please don't sue me blah blah
I suggest learning cocky comedy MM is great for picking up women but CC is more about relationships and self improvement
btw I love Sean Stephenson [link] for videos
just remember you tell otyer people what to think if you think your cripple then they think you are if they think your the life the party sexy beast then they'll think that too.
turn threir looks of pity into admiration. Its alot easier if they admire you
sorry if its long
happy hunting and good luck
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