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L.A. Tripp
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 Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 9:55 am Post subject: Turn up the heat |
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Don't be afraid to turn up the heat with the girls you pick up. I picked up a girl a couple of weeks ago and had purposely left things fairly cool for the past couple of weeks because of other things going on. Tonight, however, I purposely turned the heat up. I got her texting all night until she got off work, then she called me right away when she left work, talking to me while she drove home and staying on with me for about an hour after she got home.
Guys, this is part of pushing boundaries. You HAVE to be willing to turn up the heat. Take the convo's sexual. Change the direction of the convo's before the subject gets stale. Don't tell her everything about you up front, just enough to keep her interested.
In other words, turn things up, light her fire in her mind. Get her turned onto you and into you. Pick up steam with the new girls you pick up. Take things to the next level with each girl that you're interested in. Don't be afraid to do that.
And don't take the shit tests from them when you ARE turning up the heat. This girl told me tonight that she doesn't like arrogance, and is worried about over confidence in a guy. Hehe. And I come across as very confident, which she picked up on IMMEDIATELY. Yet, she still called me immediately after clocking out and stayed on with me, until I told her I need to go.
So, guys, pick up steam with each new girl, push the boundaries, and if you do happen to push too far, back up just a bit, but not for long. You still have to push the line. Pick up steam and get your momentum going. |
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joebazooka
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| Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 4:28 pm Post subject: |
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Words of wisdom and truth Tripp.  The other week i got opened and was so cocky at some point my partner in crime Jsmooth had to tell me take it down a bit. Also reminds me of what Kino said which im sure has been said and heard before but girls seem to like to hear things no1 else says to them.  |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 7:30 pm Post subject: |
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| joebazooka wrote: | | girls seem to like to hear things no1 else says to them. |
So true. Kino's right. |
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Juice24
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| Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 7:42 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah, i think that its sort of what happened with me and the girl, i didnt spice things up a bit |
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nuked
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I love this post. It restates the idea of mastering you own reality. Girls love it when you do shit off the wall. Take them on a journey they've never been before. Even if they don't say it, girls think about sex just as much as we do. They just aren't as open about it. If you getting them talking about it (assuming you have the rapport) you will hear some interesting stories XD I've talked to girls who were into me about sexual shit.
Just the other day I was talking to a girl I'd met about a week ago. We were talking about porn, masturbation, and sex. I'd only know her for a sum of about 5 hours and we were on the topic. Here's a good example of me turning it up during the convo.
Nuked: So let me get this straight you give head, but don't let guys go down on you.
HB: Nope, its a self-confidence issue. I've pushed guys away from down there.
Nuked: Pfft. I'll take that as a challenge
HB: Lol good luck....
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