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Psychology3
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 Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 1:09 am Post subject: Trying to reinvent myself |
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Hi, I would add my life story here...but it would be too long. So for short, was obsessed with a girl, she saw me as unique but only as a friend. Didn't talk to her for months, we began to date and be physical...3 years relationship and we break it off because of boredom I think. I just plain out think she lost attraction for me. I live at home with parents so does she (I'm transferring my colleges soon) and we're 20-21 years old, she's older than me. I knew the deangelo material before dating her and used it fairly well, then I just think it got boring eventually and she made suggestions of breaks to see how it changes things which eventually lead to a break up. Again, there are many many important details I'm probably leaving out, but basically it's like this. We recently started again, after 2 months or so of not really being in contact and she says "I forgot what it was like to kiss your lips" and I take it as a IOI but it seems she's just doing it for comfort purposes and sexual purposes and I'm still interested in her.
So my plans are:
Try to date other women and maybe try to get over her.
See where it goes with her, but TRY not to focus on it.
Try to make more friends around here because most are either taken and don't go out, shy or have moved away.
Overall, I'm working on my public perception. I'm faking the confidence for now but I'm just trying to be an alpha male.
I've heard about the inner-game thing by Deangelo and I'm pretty interested in that. Recently started reading "the game" and some things interest me.
So hey, I have plenty of questions and I do notice I give pretty damn good advice (just cant give it to myself when I'm in the situation yet I always help me friends get layed).
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TyRichard
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Location: Saskatoon / Kamloops
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Man, don't sweat it.
My fucking roomate and me played on the same college baseball team
together last year, and his ex was like 1200miles away at some other University. He went crazy trying to get over her. He stopped coming out with me, he would just sit there at night after roadtrips or practices on facebook and look at old pictures of them.
I always told him... "fuck dude, just come out, meet a girl, you'll totally forget about Jenn (the ex)."
It took him two months, and he finally came out.
I knew what kind of girl he liked, and she worked at my grocery store, so I took him shopping one day and made him talk to her while I bagged the groceries. They were fucking two days later. It went on for about a month, and now he's back in the game. He hasn't mentioned his ex since that day at the grocery store, and I NEVER see him on facebook.
So get out there. The first girl you meet will make you forget about her.
Just meet someone, anyone.
But make sure she's fucking hot !
Make sure she's a fucking 11 |
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Beaker
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Location: Dublin, Ireland
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You don't need to fake the confidence, go out and slam some other women and be confident. Every morning when you wake up say to yourself "im great, men wanna be me, women wanna be with me".
Hey, it works for me! |
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