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Frost
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 Posted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:23 pm Post subject: Trying to keep a girl's intrest! |
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So I've been talking to this girl for about a week now over myspace. I've wooed her with the idea of racing our cars, blahblah. Typical shit I do but this time it's with a girl who's absolutely attractive and she's giving me some interest. At school I went up to one of her bestfriends, talked, bullshitted and teasingly made fun of her which made out of no where talk to me soon after. Now my problem is that the "magic" of first meeting new people is slowly fizzing after we met in real life.
I'm a hopeless romantic but sometimes that scares girls away when I say sum shit like, "Hey I thought you were really beautiful when I saw you the other day." But also I'm not good at being cocky towards girls I get nervous around, her being one. My question is, how can I ask her more questions or get to know her without showing more interest? |
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duke77
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Okay, so you definetly want to stay away from the whole "hopeless romantic" persona. Hollywood makes it out to be sweet, but in truth, it sucks. If you told her she's pretty, you already gave away the upper hand and are DLV to her. You're best bet is to look for a situational opener at this point, because whle you've opened on the internet, opening in person is diferent.
For example, lets say you notice she has a picture of a friends or something. The best thing you can do is ask about the picture, and then transition to more information about yourself (needless to say interesting information). Here, you'll DHV and impress her (covertly), and then just as your building some sort of connection say you have to leave and promise to meet her later. This way, you'll still perserve yourself, and if you were interesting enough she might think about you for a few more moments.
As far as nervousness, the best thing to do is GET OVER IT. I know that oversimplifies, but walk with your chin up, chest out, and speak slowly and clearly. If you fool her into thinking you're self confident, you'll eventually become confident. |
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Frost
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| Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 6:08 am Post subject: |
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I like that man, thanks for the help.
Definitely try out the thing you gave me.
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duke77
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| Yeah, I'm still new to the forum and I haven't immersed myself in the PUA knowledge ike should have, but I haven't realized I've been running the game awhile anyway. Lemme know what happens. |
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Frost
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| Keeping you up to date duke! Alright so I haven't seen her at school (until today when she was watching me climb into a trunk of my friend's car so I could get out of school) but conversationally no. We're still talking over the internet and like you suggested I'm not going for the usual "hopeless romantic" shit I do with some girls. It turns out she is a lot more responsive to the teasing and asked me out to lunch Wed. |
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duke77
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| If she asks about the car trunk thing, make sure to have something good to say. No point in saying "My friends wouldn't let me ride up front because the car was full". Try, "it was a fun bet, thats all". |
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Frost
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| Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 6:05 am Post subject: |
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| Haha no worries man, I've got it. |
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