Personal I won'tn't freeze her out. She is going the way you want. Do you want a relationship with her or f buddy. Don't go lovey, on her treat her the same. as you were before. Joking and having with her. she wants you not a lame version of you. She wants the crazy guy who she grew up with. I feel into this trap witha girl a while back. I treated her different so she acted different.
Treat her the same as always and she will act the same.
I mean i always treated her kind of bad, and I've always been slow to answer her texts. It's just now that i have something to lose it's different for me. I didn't even know she was visiting until the day before and I had no intentions for anything to happen.
But man that makes a lot of sense, Thanks. I'm definitely putting that into consideration.