To tell or not to tell?

Swede · Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 7:12 am Post subject: To tell or not to tell?

I've been thinking...this society is secret, but not.

Do you guys tell your friends about this great map to companionship, love, and sexual advancement??

Or, do you just let them discover the society on there own?

Half of me wants to tell everyone, but the other half holds to keeping it a secret.

What do you guys do?

L.A. Tripp · Guest

I personally don't spread the word about it unless there is someone in my presence that I can HELP with it. Then I appoach them with the subject. If they're open, cool. If not, I let it die.

skittlepimp · Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 8:00 am Post subject:

i have only told one friend of this and that was becuase i knew that i could trust him, he is my wing. but it is to your advantage to keep it as quiet as possible becuase the less people know about this stuff the better your chances are.

Ka · Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 10:18 pm Post subject:

I made the mistake of telling my cousin about it (mainly because i was so excited about it), only to find him skeptical and unintrested.

I have decided since not to bring it up unless...

-someone mentions it to me and they show genuine intrest
-I run into some poor guy i see really messing things up (havent done this yet, it would be a rare thing to do)

Most people look at "self-help" type of things in a very skeptical perception especially if they have convinced themselves that they dont need help in a specific area. This is because the areas that people need the most help in can make them the most vulnerable.

hope this helps

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Actually, that's the funny thing. If you're aware of your surroundings and the people around you, you can see AFC's EVERYWHERE messing things up. But, MOST of them aren't gonna listen to someone trying to help them either. So, what else is there to do? Watch, laugh, and learn . . . what NOT to do, lol. Seriously, I'll point out things a lot that I see some guy doing, then laugh about it, and tell the person I'm with where they are going wrong. I've done that with my wife and with the girl that was my g/f at the time. It's even better if you have a guy your training with you and do that with him.

alexandros · Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:43 am Post subject:

it's much better not to tell people about it. when you tell people, they'll think you're an idiot, you'll feel like an idiot. They'll think you're some weirdo studying how to pick up girls coz you were good with girls in the first place. And if your friends really get into it, you'll have more competition, amog to beat. it's illogical to spread the words

how many smart investors tells you which share to buy or sell, or how many good businessman tells you where they stock their good from and who their customers are? They keep those information to themselves.

so why give away your advantage? it's like giving away pussies to other guys when they could have been yours. So it's smart to resist the impulse of telling anyone about the game, unless you want a wingman.

Claire · Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 1:47 am Post subject:

I dont see why you wouldn't tell your friend especially if you witness them having girl problems. At least offer it if they reject it then fine you tried. Seems to be a trend with the AFC friend here help your buddy out. if the roles we're flipped you'd want to know how you could be better with women too don't be selfish

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Fogell · Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 2:48 am Post subject:

Ive only told one of my best buddies bout what im learning b/c we talk about girls all the time, and he knows I suck so I feel comfortable talking about it with him...

he doesnt know that Im on this forum, or am researching stuff...but what I have told him is that I read "The Game" (which is how I found out about this society) and that he should read it...besides the great PUA material, its also an excellent read...I then told him about my success after learning this stuff (hooked up with an HB in my first attempt sarging) and its definately peeked his interest, although he does have a GF...

I think its ok if you tell a friend that you can trust...the good thing for me about telling my friend, is that I now have someone who I can talk to about this (outside of the forum), instead of keeping it all to myself

kinoescalator · Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 4:23 am Post subject:

You know, in a way the pay site idea is cool because it keeps out chicks from knowing our stuff. Don't like pay sites though -)

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Naw, some chicks become PUA's themselves. That's when it REALLY gets fun!

Muse · Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 8:27 am Post subject:

I have two close friends that I trusted enough to tell about Pick Up. One from high school and one from college. And God bless 'em, my buddy from highschool is just as into it as I am and my buddy from college is too and Im sure he will be an amazing wing.

I've got a number of AFC friends I want to show the light, but based on their responses to advice I've given them...I know they will think this is all shit and isn't worth their time. Shame, the world could use more guys like us. Oh well.

~Muse

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