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GrownShit504
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 Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 8:50 am Post subject: To be friends or not to be friends, that is the question |
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| When you first meet a girl, do you attempt to become friends first, or show that you have interest in her right away? Different pua websites have different theories on this aspect of dating. Some say it is an innocent way to build attraction while not appearing threatening, and others say that it drops you into the ljbf zone right away. There probably isn't a clear cut answer, but what's your take on it? |
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NightOwl
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| Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 9:23 am Post subject: |
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| usually, I dont show interest right away...but it all depends on the situation. if it's a girl you know you are going to see on a regular basis (ie: school,gym etc.) you play it different than lets say a club/bar. for the girls I know I'll see on a somewhat consistant basis, I'll be "friendly" at first and then switch gears soon after (second or third encounter). I think there's a time place for the quick seduction and also situations where you don't go for the gold at first sight. you just have to feel it out. |
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Kaos101
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I truely believe that you get what you give. If you give her the impression that you just want to be friends, then that is what you will get in return. But, if you give the impression that you are confident, valuable, charasmatic, intelligent, fun to be around, and looking for possible romance very subtlely then you have a better chance of picking your target up on a romantic basis rather than a LJBF basis.
However, any PUA should probably work with whatever he feels most comfortable with. If you are more comfortable working the making friend angle then you should by all means work that angle. Me on the other hand, my time and attention is highly valuable to other potential lovers, and I have enough friends already... |
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