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BLKHLSN
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 Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 11:36 am Post subject: thought of a good pickup/opener you guys might wanna try |
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nvm.
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Kurent
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Thats called the Mr. Smooth approach. You just say how you feel as told through the eyes of your friend. example:
PUA: My friend thinks that you are hot.
HB: Thanks
PUA: He would really like to get to know you better
etc...
check out fastseduction.com for more on that. |
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BLKHLSN
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| Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 7:11 am Post subject: |
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but no one seems to do that.. unless it's like a girl at school that you and your friends have seen a couple times.
I'm talkin about complete strangers..
o well. im a total noob. |
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Monkey
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| No one uses Mr. Smooth because it has a pretty crap success rate. When it works, it works well, but you'll find much more success with direct game than you will working with a shield like "My friend." |
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xfman
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| Posted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 2:05 am Post subject: |
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| Kurent wrote: | Thats called the Mr. Smooth approach. You just say how you feel as told through the eyes of your friend. example:
PUA: My friend thinks that you are hot.
HB: Thanks
PUA: He would really like to get to know you better
etc...
check out fastseduction.com for more on that. |
I actually think thats an afc opener , i think i used it one time when i was younger as an Afc but that doesnt work at all. |
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Mocha
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| Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 1:28 am Post subject: Unlikely to succeed - here's why |
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There are a few problems with this approach. The first is finding a willing and useful pivot - and I can almost guarantee that you will not find one by approaching some random woman and asking. She won't understand what you're doing, and if you do manage to explain she will probably view you as a creep. The best pivot is a female friend who already knows and likes you.
Also, the most likely result of this opener is that both women - your pivot and your target - will suspect that you're trying for a threesome. Your target will hear "My [female] friend thinks you're hot," and think "How do I escape from the crazy bisexual swingers who probably have many diseases?"
Finally, try to avoid the word 'hot'. Believe me, we've all heard it before, and it is only flattering if you're very drunk and kind of dumb. If you must compliment, do it after you've established rapport and are close to a phase-shift. Words like "sexy" and "attractive" are always better than "hot," and try to use them regarding a certain feature or behaviour. For example, "You're very well-spoken. I find intelligence extremely sexy in a woman," is better than "You're sexy." A good compliment should be original, memorable and polite. |
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dorian
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OMG Mocha is here!!
I swear the threesome was a joke!
welcome to the forum Mocha, make sure to give us your side of the story. |
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BLKHLSN
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oh yea.. guess that wouldn't work then. my bad.
but thanks for the advice, that was very helpful mocha.
would this work as an opener or at all?
-Hey! I need your help
HB: Sure/Depends on what it is (usually the latter would be the response)
-You see that girl over there *points* (for this to work you need to spot a 2nd objective)
HB: Yes
-Can you think of a good pick up line for me so I can use it on her?
HB: Tells you her idea/pick-up line *
-Ok, wish me luck! *at this point, walk over to the other girl* |
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lite
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| Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 5:54 pm Post subject: |
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with good body language and even little knowledge about calibration everything would work...
once I opened a girl with:
lite: Hey, I've got a question... are you a nympho?
HB: NO?!
lite: Well, you surely look like one... (big smile)...
HB: I'm definitely not a nympho! (big smile)
lite: So what's your name then? blablabla
and this one works nice for me:
lite: Hey, I have to tell you something that you might find offending... (little pause) but I have to tell you this... (little pause)
HB: Ok, tell me...
lite: (checking her out) you have a really great body (big smile)...
HB: (big smile) thank you, blablabla
there are openers that won't work for some girls, and to use any type of these openers you have to calibrate her first...
opinion opener is neutral one - almost always work...
calibration, relaxed body language, great inner game and there's no need to worry about the opener.
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nevermind
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| crash and burn |
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