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smoothie
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 Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 2:06 pm Post subject: This goes out to all you noobs and people who are on the for |
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All I ever see on here is a bunch of noobs trying to give each other advice when they haven’t even posted one lay report. This is stupid. This forum is like 90% keyboard jockey from what I see! How the fuck can you be so ignorant to give others advice on getting laid when you haven’t even managed to do it yourself?
Sort it out guys! Instead of posting stupid fucking questions over and over again about the same shit like. "Where should I start?" "If a girl says/does this to me what should I do?" “what books should I read?”
YOU WANT TO LEARN HOW TO MEET AND ATTRACT BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THEN GET OUT IN THE FUCKING FIELD! GO OUT THERE AND APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH.
You will fail many times. This is inevitable. But from the failures you shall learn. Instead of posting Stupid questions start posting god damn field reports. Even when you fuck up. Then people can give you “FEEDBACK” (This is very useful.) Filter through the feedback weed out the crap from the decent advice and maybe someone with half a brain cell might be able to tell you where you went wrong so you can make sure it doesn’t happen again and do you know what you do after that? GO BACK IN TO THE FUCKING FIELD AND KEEP TRYING.
You are not going to learn SHIT from sitting in front of your monitor all day. Right now there is a social location within 5 miles of you with beautiful woman in it. WHY ARENT YOU THERE  |
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Slai
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Totally agree with Shaft here.
Personally, Im horrible at this and thats why Im here. I sarge, but have sticking points.
But yeah, obviously, go out. sarge. fail. learn. restructure. repeat. |
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Custom
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I only give advice on shit I know...
I only report when its a full circle of methods applied to a close...
If I get blow jobs or hands jobs from birds, I don't count that as a close, I just count that as me getting a load off...
I can feel where you are coming from...
If anything you should ask them questions about their so called lays or advice...
I'm not new to meeting women, I'm not new to having sex, what I'm new to is the whole approach, learning the game, thats why I'm here, I don't see it as profit for women, but overall a new life style that one can apply to all things, not just sexual fantasy...
If I can sell a water to fish, then this here, is something I'm interested in... |
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Impact
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| Quote: | Posted: Yesterday at 2:06 pm Post subject: This goes out to all you noobs and people who are on the for
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All I ever see on here is a bunch of noobs trying to give each other advice when they haven’t even posted one lay report. This is stupid. This forum is like 90% keyboard jockey from what I see! How the fuck can you be so ignorant to give others advice on getting laid when you haven’t even managed to do it yourself?
Sort it out guys! Instead of posting stupid fucking questions over and over again about the same shit like. "Where should I start?" "If a girl says/does this to me what should I do?" “what books should I read?”
YOU WANT TO LEARN HOW TO MEET AND ATTRACT BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THEN GET OUT IN THE FUCKING FIELD! GO OUT THERE AND APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH.
You will fail many times. This is inevitable. But from the failures you shall learn. Instead of posting Stupid questions start posting god damn field reports. Even when you fuck up. Then people can give you “FEEDBACK” (This is very useful.) Filter through the feedback weed out the crap from the decent advice and maybe someone with half a brain cell might be able to tell you where you went wrong so you can make sure it doesn’t happen again and do you know what you do after that? GO BACK IN TO THE FUCKING FIELD AND KEEP TRYING.
You are not going to learn SHIT from sitting in front of your monitor all day. Right now there is a social location within 5 miles of you with beautiful woman in it. WHY ARENT YOU THERE |
Not everyone is on the same level! I know when i first started i wanted to know everything before i went out and tryd it! I think theres people here who feel the same way! I do agree that there is less and less people that sarge, its very disappointing! People hear that they need to go out, but they don't really hear it! know what im saying?
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Mister War
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I can understand the frustration coming from the true PUA's --I think it takes a while to find the rhythm of forum and your place in it because when you first find it you're all excited and eager.
The only reason I came to these forums is because in the material I was reading it said to go out and find PUA's and learn from them. It also said find others you can teach because you learn twice as fast that way. I think if you have something valid to offer then it doesn't matter what your skill level is.
I would hope everyone recognizes their place and gives respect where it's due though.
It might be a good idea for someone to write an official conduct code (if it already hasn't been done) for newbs to check out. |
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smoothie
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[quote="Impact"] | Quote: | Posted: Yesterday at 2:06 pm Post subject: This goes out to all you noobs and people who are on the for
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Not everyone is on the same level! I know when i first started i wanted to know everything before i went out and tryd it! I think theres people here who feel the same way! I do agree that there is less and less people that sarge, its very disappointing! People hear that they need to go out, but they don't really hear it! know what im saying?
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I completely get that people want to know as much as they can before they go out and I was the same way but it’s a trap. I fell in to it myself and its ridicules how easy it is to fall in too. Allot of the guys on here will get so stuck trying to get all the knowledge that they never bother going out cos they are too busy looking for a new method. They have to realise that this works in baby steps. Your never gona learn everything all at once. you learn a little bit, apply it and see if it works for you. Once you have applied it you are far more likely to remember it in future. All these guys who wana know exactly what too say and do all the way up to the lay, and it doesn’t work like that. There is no real specific track you can follow there’s just a rough idea of how to go about it. Instead of treating it like a one way track they need to start treating it like a fluid which can go multiple ways.
It’s so frustrating to see this. And I get what you mean when you say they don’t really hear it. I didn’t open my eyes to my keyboard jockeying ways until one of the instructors on another forum I was on completely flamed me to the ground. It was a smack in the face but it made me realise that I seriously need to get out more. I ended up thanking him for it cos it was the wake up call I needed. That’s why I'm taking this rather harsh approach to all these stupid questions. I wana smack people in the face and make them WAKE THE FUCK UP!
If people wana learn from others then set up MEETS. Seriously guys this forum needs a lot more of them. People need to meet up and sarge together. Learn from one another. Point out mistakes. Having a wing is one of the best things in the world for dealing with AA cos even if a girl shoots you down in to a burning wreck your wing can pick you up and help you look at it from a rational point of view. |
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Impact
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| Quote: | completely get that people want to know as much as they can before they go out and I was the same way but it’s a trap. I fell in to it myself and its ridicules how easy it is to fall in too. Allot of the guys on here will get so stuck trying to get all the knowledge that they never bother going out cos they are too busy looking for a new method. They have to realize that this works in baby steps. Your never gona learn everything all at once. you learn a little bit, apply it and see if it works for you. Once you have applied it you are far more likely to remember it in future. All these guys who wana know exactly what too say and do all the way up to the lay, and it doesn’t work like that. There is no real specific track you can follow there’s just a rough idea of how to go about it. Instead of treating it like a one way track they need to start treating it like a fluid which can go multiple ways.
It’s so frustrating to see this. And I get what you mean when you say they don’t really hear it. I didn’t open my eyes to my keyboard jockeying ways until one of the instructors on another forum I was on completely flamed me to the ground. It was a smack in the face but it made me realize that I seriously need to get out more. I ended up thanking him for it cos it was the wake up call I needed. That’s why I'm taking this rather harsh approach to all these stupid questions. I wana smack people in the face and make them WAKE THE FUCK UP!
If people wana learn from others then set up MEETS. Seriously guys this forum needs a lot more of them. People need to meet up and sarge together. Learn from one another. Point out mistakes. Having a wing is one of the best things in the world for dealing with AA cos even if a girl shoots you down in to a burning wreck your wing can pick you up and help you look at it from a rational point of view. |
I'm a different case to that. I learned as much as i can learn, than i said, alright thats enough information for me, i made sure i understand it by applying it on the forum, asking questions. Than I went out a few times in the city by myself (day time)! At first i was terrified, and didn't approach, second time i wasn't really scared to go up to girls, so than the third time more i went close to them and up to them and around them the more confident i got with myself. So than one day i just opened, and since than ive sarged day time no real problem. My duty is to do a perfect day sarge and know how to open in any situation and do night time too.
its different for everyone. I do give you credit with what you said, and i believe that wings really DO help, but wings can also be a total disaster! i think you should game by yourself before you get a pair of wings that can be very broken! Or if you want a wing to throw you out there to give you a nice ass kicking, that defiantly helps alot too. Find a good wing yeh? and your set! we are all here to learn, no one here is really that good in the forum, sure we have Monkey and all those guys who seem to know their shit! but generally most of us are still learning. I think what scares people is in their mind they don't exactly know what they should do or where they should be heading at in a conversation. To anyone reading, you always head for your intent, which is to get the girl. I think the whole SOI thing is stupid, I've always known my intent, and so has she! But what seems stupid to me, to some other dude who is different, who all girls immediately make a friendship bond with, he has to do the SOI. I think the whole SOI principle should be tought better. You use a SOI when you feel like shes trying to put you in friend zone. Thats it. But the point of this is that everyone is different, what works for me dosn't work for you as well, and vice versa. I know your trying to do the best for everyone and give them a nice kick out there, but some people here need to organize problems with themselves first, wether it is physiological or physical or whatever before they enter the field. NLP helps for this, i think not enough people are giving this credit, and its such a shame knowing guys that are like " yeh im confident " and they come with a energy level of 2/10, and they crash... NLP guys, its important.
Just some thoughts
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M
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Hey Smoothie,
I gotta let you know, bro... your post was fuckin' hilarious. I was thinking the exact goddamn thing.
Lot of newbies nowadays... I've been away from the forum lately. Got different battles to fight with a HB9 I got in the field... debating on whether to get really serious or not. But what ever happened to Shaft... or Monkey... or Jaxin. What about DJSuperstar? Did it all end in that big war between Jaxin and Shaft?
Any which way, lots of bullshit from newbies. Don't get me wrong. I'm in no way a mPUA myself, but at the same time, I find some of this shit hard to believe. But I'm sure there is some strong talent in this bunch. But it hasn't really shown itself yet.
Respectfully,
M |
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