Field Report: Saturday 23 April 2011:
Last night was easily the best night I have had out with the Jackal. I honestly cannot believe how much progress I have actually made in the last 4 sessions I have been training. As an executive summary of the night I can say that I got two number closes one during day game and one during night game and that the evening was spectacular for me because of my clear change in confidence levels and fearlessness. I Would say that when I enter bars I am actually feeling “alpha” and am not afraid to open sets of girls no matter their size. What I found incredible also was the fact I felt like I owned each venue I entered and felt completely comfortable. I also noticed that as a group Jackal´s crew seemed to be the centre of attention; many times I noticed that groups of girls were looking our way and at myself. I can honestly say that last night I felt like a genuine PUA. As Jackal said so aptly “We carpet bombed the place!”
The night began again with some filming, it was here that a very strong belief in my head was knocked down, the belief that told me, approaching a set on a phone is too hard.
In order to film my youtube field report summary we needed a camera woman so Jackal specifically ordered me to approach sets which were still talking on the phone. I felt really awkward and honestly wished that he hadn´t asked me to do this but given his skills as a motivator he pushed me into asking an Asian (Indian or Pakistani origin) girl walking towards us who was still on the phone. I was astonished to find that when I approached her she stopped her conversation (although she didn’t hang up) and simply said, “Sure I´ll film for you…” and stood there holding her phone to her ear whilst listening to mine and Jackal´s instructions. We were totally successful and she did us the favour of recording my field report.
A second set that I approached who was also on the phone actually ended her conversation for me. I was particularly proud of this approach because my confidence and energy levels were high and I went in completely direct with my name and three facts. (Let´s just get this straight a second…She ended her telephone conversation for some random guy in the street who had just come into her reality blurting “Hi I´m Diamands how are you? Let´s talk!” How do you think that makes me feel?!? Thank you Jackal!!) A recording of this girl is also on youtube as “Jackals Crew Birmingham PUA Diamonds in Action 1.3GP”. I was totally afraid of approaching these phone sets but Jackal is a very clever guy and I have learnt long ago that if you do as he asks, no matter how hard, silly or frightening it may seem, the Jackal is always right and he will lead you to success.
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My first number close came at about 6:20 in a McDonald´s Restraunt. Jackal told me to approach a one set eating her meal by the window. I remembered thinking “First he wanted me to invade a phone conversation now he wants me to interrupt a girl while she´s trying to eat?! What is he doing to me?!” But lesson one ( Jackal is always right) overrode this and I approached completely directly and within less than 3mins I had a number close, but not only that she was begging me for my FB saying “We could talk on FB too!” To be honest I still find it staggering that in such little time I can get a number close so easily and quickly especially after interrupting a meal!
As the night wore on we obviously approached many more sets, too many to go into but basically I really did feel like a different man to what I was three weeks ago and Jackal and the other students concurred with this. I felt confident, I felt in control, I felt like an alpha male and this time, unlike my first time, I did not take any shit from girls. Wild Thing even commented to me “Wow you aren´t taking any shit tonight are you?!” And it was true, I felt alpha. Although I will admit that I definitely made blunders in terms of negging too much and not complimenting anywhere enough I was completely satisfied that I had the feeling of literally “not giving a crap” about what girls said to me or tried to pull on me. What I was particularly proud of was that I Amogged a guy who made a sly comment to one of my fellow students by telling him in front of his girls “Hey, this guy´s the one walking out of here with the digits…” to which his girls laughed making him look a complete moron. I know it wasn´t a particularly smart response but the very fact I responded to this guy was something I´d have never done in my old life. This again is down to all the work Jackal did with aggressive compassion, movie fighting, and amog tactics in order to get us used to verbal and physical contact (not fighting, just aggressive touching etc).
Our last venue was also very productive, it was our at our last location where I felt most on fire and could see the sets watching us, Jackal´s pack, swooping in on girls all over the place. There were some seriously happy and some seriously jealous girls out there last night and it was down to us. I felt like we were stars, eyes were on us and we had so much social proof. I even re-met a girl I had number closed earlier and used her as a pawn to open another set ( this of course was to the sound of laughter coming from a set adjacent to me and my pawns target set who were watching me intently…).
Overall the night was a staggering success, I felt like we were a wolf pack preying on sheep, and as Jackal said: “We carpet bombed the place!”
And right now, well...I have two more dates to arrange!