Well it was a good night and I have learnt loads !! the inner game is the most hardest part, it’s the part played in the comfort zone.
I had the venues planned in advance, a meet at XXXX cocktail bar (cool) then for a chineese then the XXXX in Piccadilly circus.
Things started well a great kiss when we first met then, played catch up on the last time since we met we laughed and joked I kept the topics varied, when ex’s where brought up I ploughed through, changed the subject etc, still kino touching legs etc and she was responding things were going well. After an hour it was time for a venue change and we walked holding hands to the chineese, again I told some funny stories and she asked more about me, so I told her a secret and we talked about growing up and families, ambitions and aspirations and what we want out of life. Oh forgot, I brought the first drink in the cockatil bar she then brought the next. When she went to the toilet I paid the chineese bill and suggested that she buys the drinks in the next venue. We then walked to the Jewel again really close, she brought the drinks and we found a quite dark area to sit and fluffed. Started loads of kissing but I found it hard to keep things chugging along, I did not use any of my routines, NLP anything like that as I had been through them all on the first night, I thought about a magic trick but decided against it as it was not really the right time or place. We talked about connections and sex we kissed some more. We then walked to the underground together and again kissed goodbye it was not really the ideal place. I said text me when your home she did and I text her back.
So now I have had 2 meeting and have been through the 7 hour phase….oh I must also say on the first meeting we played the truth game, she has only ever slept with 3 men one who she was married to for 12 years she is now 33, and 1 one night stand. I did say that I had slept with over 100 and I think that she may have been shocked…
Anyway I think that if I had had a hotel or somewhere to take her to it would have been a ! close but it was not going to happen when we both meet in London then head back home again as we have work in the morning……..
So I am not really sure where to go from here will probably bin the project…. I know where it failed it was because I had no where for the seduction stage If I was to say lets head back to my hotel then it would be game on, I am sure……..
Any pointers on this report would be great….. but is there anywhere I can go to find out more about the inner game !!! at the moment I am just myself and I am lucky enough that it pulls me through but I am also sure that maybe she thinks that I didn’t come across as the same person as the last time we met, but I am not sure about that
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