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Odds are you came to this site frustrated, in pain, suffering and thinking "I'm tired of all these bitches bringing me down. I have to do something about it.".
Maybe you got hurt in a relationship.
Maybe you never got ANY.
Maybe you heard the classics "You're like my little brother!", "Let's just be friends", "I don't feel that SPARK for you.".
Maybe you just want to get more pussy. I don't know.
Whatever is the case I want to give you one of the epiphanies I got right now, for free.
Here it comes:
THERE IS POWER IN WALKING AWAY.
Yeah. You did read it right. By the time you realize you walk away and nothing happens, you're still able to enjoy the sun, the beach, go to your gym, have a job, have friends, you may start to realize your true value.
I don't know if it's going to happen right now or later, but what's important is that you notice that true game comes from having a fulfilled life.
No. You don't need that car, that magazine abs to have this now. Everything you need is right there inside you.
But man, if that car or abs makes you smile go for it.
You may begin to realize that the beauty of those girls mean nothing. In a few years it will be gone.
But your journey right here is happening RIGHT NOW. You gotta wake up now.
You gotta live your life to its fullest.
By the time you feel that click right there inside your head, and you look in the mirror and is able to truly say "I love myself" that's when you realize all those negs and gimmicks are just tools, but most importantly they're just a band-aid on top of a bigger problem.
If you can't go to the mirror and say that from your heart, none of these PUA tricks will work.
If you can however, be happy whenever you want, walk through life with a swagger of "I own this fucking place" then all those tools work, and in fact you'll not think about any of them.
You'll not see that girl as a bitch and be ready to neg her, you'll realize there's power in walking away, and as being something of value you really are, you know you can walk away with peace and clarity and there's another girl, even more beautiful right there in another corner.
You realize they're not your window of opportunity, but it's rather you're their window of opportunity to join and share this wonderful adventure that's your life.
applying morphine to a broken bone will take away the pain, but it won't heal it.
while masking or numbing the pain can help in recovering from a broken bone, it could also make healing more difficult. this is because pain (although unpleasant) helps you locate exactly where you are hurting.
i disagree with the original post, because i think "PUA tricks" can be like physical therapy to the bone and connective tissue to help it heal up stronger. if you mask the pain completely, you might not realize that your bone is still broken. if you don't treat this injury, and you continue doing whatever you did that caused the injury, you might make the injury worse, or injur yourself in other ways.
walking around all doped up on morphine will make you feel pretty good, but it will stop you from realizing the reality: that you are a spaced-out junkie walking around with a broken arm.
don't neglect your outer game!
CHAT
