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SBoarder9
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 Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 12:08 am Post subject: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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I've been gaming this HB 8 for a while, and I was wondering if this would be a good way to spark a conversation via text:
PUA: OMG, I have this new little girl in my swim class who is just like you! She acts just like you too, same facial expressions and everything. She could be your mini-me!
(this makes sense to my situation because I teach swim lessons after school for little kids, and she knows this)
My thinking is that anything with a similar formation (OMG, I just saw someone who looks just like you today) would be a good convo starter for phone game with both texts and actual calls, but I'm not sure. I don't want to come off as a creeper or anything.
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated!  |
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bilbil85
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 3:01 am Post subject: Re: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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| SBoarder9 wrote: | I've been gaming this HB 8 for a while, and I was wondering if this would be a good way to spark a conversation via text:
PUA: OMG, I have this new little girl in my swim class who is just like you! She acts just like you too, same facial expressions and everything. She could be your mini-me!
(this makes sense to my situation because I teach swim lessons after school for little kids, and she knows this)
My thinking is that anything with a similar formation (OMG, I just saw someone who looks just like you today) would be a good convo starter for phone game with both texts and actual calls, but I'm not sure. I don't want to come off as a creeper or anything.
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated! |
Someone else on this forum wrote this once I think, well i read somewhere and love it. Make sure the girl has some interest in you an watch out, this had a hypnotic effect.
PUA: STOP!!!!
Her: What? or Huh? or Stop what?
PUA: Stop smiling and thinking about me, see you're doing it...right... now
No matter what she says, say nothing after. Just leave it alone after that. Not only will she be thinking about you, but it is very alpha. You dont have to use that exactly, but it works great. |
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SBoarder9
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:03 am Post subject: |
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| So I should text this or say it over the phone? |
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NateTheMack
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:10 am Post subject: |
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| Text it kind of flows better for that one. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 7:30 am Post subject: Re: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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| bilbil85 wrote: |
PUA: Stop smiling and thinking about me, see you're doing it...right... now
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Sboarder, you're idea should work fine actually, but I myself have used something very similiar to this one here and yes, it does work well. Once she texts you back a couple of times, then you can text her again. Or call her. |
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poeticlyskuac
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The reminder is a good concept to talk to a girl, but in my experiences if you do not talk to her relatively often over the phone, she may not text you back. You might want to find out if she likes texting, some times it is a convenient for them, sometimes it isn't. I have noticed that you get more responses from phone calls.
Sometimes that is a girl's favorite form of communication and that is fine. A call will push you forward further, it immediately shows there is some interest on your part(which is still needed, you don't want to look needy, but you do want to show interest in her life).
Calling is the best form of re-introduction , you can show your character. It allows you to rekindle that initial attraction. She can hear you and you can remind her why she liked you or what she liked about/on you(she may have noticed or complemented you, a shirt, shoes, necklace, etc).
Phone calls show confidence and personalization. To me there is to little tone or emotion involved in texting for you to use it to game a girl. You can't hear her reaction, responses are all thought out. You will know whether she wants to talk to you. If you just leave a message and receive a response (texts or calls you back). This happened just the other day to me. I called her Saturday and she texted me back, told me what was going on. I'll call her again tomorrow night.
In my experiences, texting is great when you are passed the initial attraction phase, and in the comfort phase.
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Arkitekt
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 4:33 pm Post subject: Re: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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| bilbil85 wrote: |
Someone else on this forum wrote this once I think, well i read somewhere and love it. Make sure the girl has some interest in you an watch out, this had a hypnotic effect.
PUA: STOP!!!!
Her: What? or Huh? or Stop what?
PUA: Stop smiling and thinking about me, see you're doing it...right... now
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I like it. May have to use it sometime. |
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 6:18 pm Post subject: Re: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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| bilbil85 wrote: |
PUA: STOP!!!!
Her: What? or Huh? or Stop what?
PUA: Stop smiling and thinking about me, see you're doing it...right... now
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After reading this last night, I tried it on this girl friend of my mine who Im trying to sarge...there is definately a big level of comfort with her, so I thought "what the heck, lets just try it...see what happens" It went like this...
ME: STOP!!!
HB: Stop what?
ME: Thinking about me...see your doing it...right...now
HB: Haha you wish
and that was that...I guess I forgot to put the "stop smiling" part in there...dont know how much of a difference that wouldve made...but ya, I gave it a shot, even though she didnt initiate more convo after I still thought it worth trying out...ill have to try it on some other girls I know as well to experiment more |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Well, the fact that she DID respond at all is still somewhat of an IOI. It's not as STRONG of an IOI, but it's still there. The rest depends on how you handle the girl in general. |
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SBoarder9
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 8:33 pm Post subject: Re: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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What would be the proper response to something like this? |
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NateTheMack
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Speaking of replys to that, I have gotten this before
Me:STOP!
Her: Hammertime!
But yea it started the convo, so it still worked but cought by off guard. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject: Re: Texts - Is this a good way to initiate a convo? |
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| SBoarder9 wrote: |
What would be the proper response to something like this? |
No, I know.
Remember, she IS at some point thnking about you. And you are confident in yourself, so show it. |
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SBoarder9
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| Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 11:14 pm Post subject: |
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| That's awesome guys, thanks. Hey, if anyone has any other good text openers they should post them here! |
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Soma
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Wow, that one really does work. I tried it today on a HB8 and here's how she responded:
Me: Stop!
Her: sorry, i got home late last nite and fell right asleep. (She was supposed to call me) Wat? Stop wat?
Me: Stop smiling and thinking about me. See, you're doing it...right...now.
Her: Darn...U caught me!
I then ignored her last comment and asked her if she had seen the movie American Gangster and BOOM! The convo exploded after that! Good post! |
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L.A. Tripp
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WOW! It works? LOL. Sorry, had to do it man.
Great job on that though. Seriously. |
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