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godlike
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 Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2007 8:01 pm Post subject: Tell me what to do my brothers |
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I was gaming a really cute girl.. everthing was fine .. she was clever + pretty.. I told her to follow me to my groups table.. We continued IOI each other until she left and i number closed...Everything was fine...
The bad thing starts then...my friend tells me
Friend: WOW ! i really liked her.. blablabla.. call her.. .blablabla.. we must meet again..blablabla next saturday blablabla
Godlike:Blablabla.. ok i will blabla...
I was confused.. that girl really liked me.. she was IOI me all the time.. (my friend is a noob.. he didnt notice..)I liked her alot too... But my friend , who is actually a best friend liked her too...
We met again.. it was really nice we were flirting and stuff.. i was KINOing her all the time.. my friend hadnt been rejected by her though... she was talking to him.. she even sended some IOIs to him... few , but still she did..
I think he could, with the right guidance by me, date her again.. maybe even make love with her... I liked that girl too..i think i could make a relationship with her... Should i ''crush'' his chance and date her myself.. or should i help him ???
Im really confused... |
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Saucy
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| Posted: Fri Mar 16, 2007 10:55 pm Post subject: |
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godlike I had this exact same problem this week... From what I got if he just "likes" her its fair game for both of you. However I would like to think of it as does he really have a chance with this girl or are you letting an HB skip away .
~Saucy |
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Mr. White
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| Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2007 12:03 am Post subject: |
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Maybe talk with your friend?
If he really really wants her, then let him go on it.
And say next time he ows you one.
Also, by doing this. She might actually get more interested in you, MIGHT.
Cause if your friend let her take a lead, she might fall out of interested after she got him, but u stay aside and play cool, confident, mature and different.
Thats the possible scenario. Definetly happens 2 out of 5 times.
Good like and happy sarging 
- Mr. White
ps. just came home, got laid from a girl who has boyfriend. i think i should wash me hands. --->  |
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Enigma87
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same exact thing last nite mate, went to pub barmaid, iv slept with, fuckin uber pretty... me an my freind both runnin the little game we have,  we were talkin an i brought to his attention that she is def interested in one of us, after watchin her body language an talkin for a while we decided that she was interested in him (with a grudging heart myself) had an empty house and that. well we went out an if she was interested in him he didnt close or nothing, i think i coulda although she has jus got outa a relationship and when we did hook up b4 i had jus finished one.
anyhows long story short i didnt speak to her at all. he talked most of the nite,
talk to ur mate, explain to him that she is interested in you, an how u can tell this, see what he thinks explain u like her and that u hav been tryin to get with her, and u dnt want ur game to be put to waste.
if that fails toss a coin. LOL
girls will come and go dude, from what u hav said then it dosnt sound like u got ill feelings, an i doubt he will too.
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JaK
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Your friend sounds oblivious, so you probably need to to say something.
I just had this same thing happen with a friend of mine. This girl is an 8.5 and a friend of his that he likes but I knew he had little chance with. But he was thinking he did and it was getting in the way of me exerting my power over this girl. So I flat out told him "look, I'm gonna be honest with you, I dig this girl."
His response was "You know, if I can't hook up with this girl, I'd want you to be the one who does," Thanks, dude!
(It helped that she had told him she had a crush on me, so I think he saw the writing on the wall anyway. Now all I need to do is undermine her boyfirend and she will be mine ! Did I mention she has a boyfriend?) |
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Saros
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Let me tell you, I was at a meeting with the Toronto Lair boys and this is what we were discussing. These kinds of little conflicts over women can really break up friendships. If anything like this ever happens, you need a set of ground rules between you and your buddies. If YOU open the set, you get first choice over the girl in the set. No questions asked. It applies the other way around if your buddy opens a set. If YOU and the girl are already into each other and your buddy sees that, he should stay the hell out of it. However, if the girl starts showing HIM IOIs, HE should be a responsible friend and pull you aside and say, “Hey that girl seems into me, can I take her?” It should still be your decision if you opened that set, because obviously you opened that set just for her. By no means should your friend be purposely gaming her, that is just completely disrespectful towards you and also reflects badly off of you for associating with someone like him. He also should not enter the set unless you invite him OR he is skilled enough to help you gain an upper hand in the set/ disarm obstacles / help you DHV etc. At the end of the day, only one of you can get her and if you both chase, she will be gone.
And for Godsakes, don’t go out and try to sarge with AFC buddies who do not know what the hell they are doing. |
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