Supermarket and mall approaches

kiwi-indian · Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 8:16 am Post subject: Supermarket and mall approaches

Any tips? I scoped a supermarket looking for an opportunity but didn't know what to do when I spotted someone. Most of the nice looking girls, and there were very few, were in the women's areas like cosmetics and stuff. I couldn't exactly think of any approaches to use that would suit the situation.

What about Malls? There are lots of girls always walking around the malls. How do you approach a girl in a mall? I am scared of using canned approaches like "excuse me I just wanted your opinion on something". That just feels really weird and try hard. I like situational openers but it is hard when a girl is just sitting by herself drinking coffee or just looking at clothes. In fact most of the hot girls are looking at clothes and are INSIDE girls clothing shops. How do you game in a girls clothing shop if you're just by yourself?

Whoopie · Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 11:36 am Post subject:

I plan on going sarging by myself Sat. Unless something comes up or my friday night is to bad.....I am going to try and go to the Mall. There are stores like Gap, A&E, Hollister, Abercrombie, Aeropostale, etc. Most of those stores have women who work their. They are usually by theirselves some what. Ask then on a situational opener or open them up with a neg.

I have a couple different approaches I am going to try this weekend.

1) Find the ugliest shirt possible. Then go up to one of the girls who work there and say. "Hey I need a female opinion real quick. Do you think this shirt would look good on me?"

If she says Yes. You neg her for having a bad fashion sense. Tell her that you couldn't believe she would lie to you. Everything after that is on your toes an by ear.

If she says No. Be like good. I had to test you out first to make sure you had a good fashion sense because what you are wearing right now. Does not scream out I have good taste in fashion. You still neg her but remember to smile. After that its by ear and on your toes.

2) Find the Gayest shirt possible. Same as above just reword it and go with the flow.

If I do go out Sat morning/afternoon I am going to test out these openers.

The stores I plan on hitting are. Buckle, Aeropostale, A&E, Abercrombie, Express, Pac Sun, Gap(maybe), and Hollister (Maybe)

My goal is to hit 6 stores. Using the Gay opener 3 times and Using the Uglies shirt opener 3 times. Now the chances of me being able to the Gay opener is slimmer than the ugliest shirt. SO I might run the Ugliest shirt more but I will test out what works. If somene else wants to try this Sarge let me know and how it goes.

-Mystic- · Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 12:14 pm Post subject:

Who cares if its a girls store or by beauty products? if you approach a girl in a store or section like that right off the bat she sees you are confident without ever saying a word. use what whoopie said. neg her on her fashion sense. ask her what color makeup would look best on you then neg her for actually thinking you wear it

Waffle · Posted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 6:16 pm Post subject:

Okay. Go into Bed Bath and Beyond and find a cute girl. Tell her you just moved into a place that only has hard water and it screws up your hair. Then have her feel your head and make her give you a suggestion to help. Not only can you get a convo going, but now your hair will be silky and smooth.

kinetik14 · Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 7:47 am Post subject:

(LoveNothing) · Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 4:00 pm Post subject:

I can open and use these lines (i do often) alllllllllllllllllllll day. My problem is that I dont know where to go after that.. I can engage any woman I see into a conversation.. It's after that is where I have the issue.

tyler_pua_football · Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 7:14 pm Post subject: product

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String8000 · Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 12:55 am Post subject:

I have a friend who's a bit of a natural.

Once when we were in the Florida Mall (in Orlando), and we were taking note of the many cute girls around there, he told me that he sometimes just goes up to girls and basically says that he's new to the area, and he would like to know what they do around town for fun/do they know any fun spots to go at night/ etc.

Seems too direct to me, but he claims he gets good responses. Not sure if he's ever transitioned to getting numbers off that, but it could work!

Resonance · Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:19 am Post subject:

If you're gaming the workers Whoopies suggestions are gold, cuz he's initially setting up the interaction differently to a normal customer-employee thing. If you're gaming random mall people make it light and situational. Just something that they don't intially have to committ alot of time and effort to, thats congruent with you and thats fun.

Mr. Attraction · Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject:

direct approaches are the best for the mall i think like hey i wanted to come over here because i think your cute, then u neg!!

NOILLUSION · Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 10:15 pm Post subject:

yea i've been tryna figure this one out lately too. Canned lines will seem really weird in a mall setting.
Does anyone know how to approach a girl just passing by in the oncoming crowd?

I thought of something funny if you're inside Abercrombie & Fitch though, and there are usually really hot girls shopping there.

Sing the hook for LFO - summer girls if you're near your target. lmao. And they'll probably only know the song if they're older than 18.

If you don't know the song: [link]

Reptar · Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 9:35 pm Post subject: i understand

i love approchin girls in a female only shop idk y i just do , dont think its wierd at all treat it like a store u love u kno look at a few things like ur shoppin nd when u do see some thats worth aproching try this u can go to ways the pick up somthing goofy and ask if it looks good on u , or look at sumthin close so she knows ur there then tell her I NEED YOU TO ANSWER THIS .... i mean if u choose the wrong thing someone could die , its serious (very over dramatic like but not to the point its outrageous) then ask her who would win in a thumb wrestling match spiderman or batman easy opener no matter the response u got something to talk about either y u think shes wrong or why u kno ur right or direct it to something like i used to watch them when i was younger fluff a little then go from then the main thing is confidence good luck

Reptar · Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 9:39 pm Post subject:

Buff · Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 1:37 pm Post subject:

Linwood · Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 3:33 pm Post subject:

From Style -- Use the one where you are walking in the supermarket, acting like you're on your cell phone. Then go up to a target and tell her you're talking to your younger brother (or cousin) and he wants to buy a new blouse for a birthday present for his new girlfriend, but he's not sure what her size is. Explain that it's too late for him to find out her size, so should he error on the size of too big or too small? She'll usually go with one way or the other or give a different suggestion, other than a shirt.

I used it once and the girl told me to go too small. Then a few minutes into the convo, she changed her mind and told to go too big. Perfect opportunity to neg her.

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