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Stealth7
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 Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 5:16 am Post subject: Suck in FRIENDSHIP ZONE! |
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Why in the hell am I constantly in "friendship" zone? I talked to this one chick (texting) and I told her I was researching the art of attraction. I asked whethr or not if she was single whether or not she'll like a dude like me. She wrote back that that I'm def. kewl but not her type.
This happened to another girl named Brenda which is 18 and loves bad ass ghetto guys. She told me I wasn't her type. Now if these girls are just losers and want a stoner or a fucking douch bag then where does this leave me? The first impression is always best and I think I royally fucked up.
It seems like all attract is old ladies and whales! I guess whales need loving but I want a skinny, tall and sexy HB!
Katie which is this chick that is a Team Leader in Trinity Services (It's a place to help with disorders such as depression and shit like that). I was chatting with some friends and chilling with them as she walked by. I asked how she was and she said, "I'm good and how are you?" Not a IOI! When she came back from inside the building I was busy talking to my friend and she squeezed by; I acted like she pushed me and told her, "Thansk for pushing me!" No response. Who gives a fuck anyways. Yeah she's a 8 but who gives a fuck! I use to have one-titus for this HB. Her father died recently so I could imagine she's going through alot of shit. I wanted to give her a card telling her Sorry for her lost But that would be so AFC. I'm trying to get rid of my AFC traits.
How would a PUA act in my situation? Thanks! |
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Gilf
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| Posted: Sat Feb 16, 2008 10:28 am Post subject: |
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I'm no expert but i'd say i the first example you were seeking validation from her, disqualifying yourself in the process. Remember, she has to work for your affection, not the other way round. Also don't tell them your researching attraction, that kinda says "i don't get any so i have to rely on a book to be cool" (which we do but they don't need to know that  ).
Asking how someone is is not a good opener, you need to engage her more, ask her opinion on something. |
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Disceto
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| Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 4:03 am Post subject: |
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| just didnt play the game right, look at what went wrong. i did and now i dont have any "girls that are friends" anymore... |
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hohomerryjingle
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| Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 5:59 am Post subject: |
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| ok I'm no expert but I would say you are going in too strong. Instead of flat out just asking if she is attracted to you try hanging out with the girl a couple times, just you two if possible. During that flirt and send her subtle hints that you are interested. But like I said, I'm no expert but why not give it a try. And I feel your pain I have been in the friend zone many times. |
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d mid
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| Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 12:40 am Post subject: |
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| Dude, NEVER, EVER supplicate to her or anyone for that matter, thats not Alpha bro. You are the prize NOT HER, make her work for your attention, get in the right frame. Knock that AFC shit off, from now on when you meet a chick, give her a hard time, get her laughing, convey value and personality through whatever stories and routines you have preselected, if you havent done this already then put a game plan together, set some goals and start believing you are Alpha and others will believe too. |
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