Hi,

This is a 27 year old guy from Sweden having problem getting to date three. The second date with the girl was sucessfull and we made out at three different times. We played shuffleboard, everything was playful and we laughed a lot. Maybe I was to nice a few times and let myself into her "frame" but otherwise everything went great. This is btw a waitress that I picked up, on a scale 1-10, a 7 (body an 8 thou). The third kiss was when we said good bye, and it was quite intense. I freezed at one point and she was very eager to continue etc...

After three days I texted this:

Me: Hey hey. Thanks for wednesday, minus the salt;-) (she spilt salt over me, long story). You dont happen to be off work tomorrow? Would be fun to do something then. Time: Saturday 12am

She: I just realized before that I forgot to answer, sorry...Yeah thanks it was nice:)..No, I work all day tomorrow unfortunately. Time: Sunday 2'o clock at night (not a good sign if she actually forgot about me)

Me: Drunk text above;)? Ok to bad, foolish of me to hope for the dream scenario that you didnt work a weekend day...

She: Haha no:) Yeah, I though you were smarter than that..

(The coming message is not so good, schould have replied with something like: as a comfort Im way smarter than you or something)

Me: Even I'm human:)! How does it look for you the coming days?

She: Oh yeah:)? I'm busy unfortunately:/

Me: Yeah Im pretty perfect so I understand it comes as a suprise! Ok

She: Haha Yeah it was that...


What schould my strategy be? Whats your view on the situation? Thankfull for help