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Cool
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 Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 9:57 pm Post subject: still opening and she has to go..what to do? |
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I was waiting at the cross light (to walk across the street) and this girl (20 maybe) walked up to wait aswell. HB9 eassyy. so before when she stopped walking i opened and asked her for advice etc. But when i was opening i studdered a bit and couldn't remember what to say. She kinda smiled like ""hurry the fuck up junior"". My buddy that i was with had his back turned to her so i turned him around to face her while i was still opening. I then got on track and it was going fine.
The light turned so we could walk across and her and i were still talking, when the sidewalk went 2 ways and she kinda kept walking and so did i so i just said ""are u goin that way?" and she said "yeah" so i said ""see u later"" and she gave me a big smile and kept going.
I am not too sure how i should have handeled this considering that she was older than me, she seemd in a rush and she was walking towards the bus station so i didn't want to keep her. What should i have done in this situation?? |
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mozyFresh
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im a little bit tipsy so i dont if this will be good advice.
Dont even think about whether she is older than you, we are all in different stages of our lifes, she just another female. Go with the quick and direct approach if you have to and the first impression should be strong, but you can always show her your high vaule after. Hi im ***.
...if your not already seeing sum1 i'd love to take you out sometime to get to know you better. What would be the best way to contact you.
Get her intrest quick & close |
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Mister_GQ
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| try a # close, and give a big DHV but looks like ur AA really got u there, did u really stutter that badly that she said hurry up junior? u should have said hold on grams, or ur lucky that ur getting approached by someone so young dont spoil it. thats a perfect time for a neg u realllly should have. and if u did then u should have complience tested her and said walk with me for a bit i got a story/trick/w.e for u. |
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Hobbit
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| I don't know if I am taking this out of context, but from the way I comprehended your story is that she was begging you to flirt with her, with the hurry up junior comment (assuming it was playful). You should've just tried to close her, because apparently she already thought you were attractive. |
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Cool
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| wow lol i must have really worded it wrong. She didn't say ""hurry the fuck up junior""...the way that she smiled at me was as if she was saying ""hurry the fuck up junior""...sorry for the confusion |
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nebuer
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If she was really in a hurry, you could've gone for a number close and continued it later. No harm in trying  |
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Rye Lee
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| In those situations, it presents and easy reason to tell her that you should continue the conversation later and then you hand her your phone with the input new phone number page open. Failing that, hand her a pen and some paper, or your hand even. |
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