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SvenBula
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 Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 9:57 pm Post subject: Sticking point - the phonecall |
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At this point I've got a pretty god online game. Within a few days of casual chatting i get the girls to god comfortbuilding conversations. I get them hooked. I get their number without objections. And.. I call them.
And I somehow screw up from the first moment.
I've heard somewhere " all she want is to hear your voice so she knows your not some weirdo." ...
I'm friendly and nice on the phone cause I thought we where at a comfort building stage. But obviously I'm wrong. Do i have to shoot her down before she even opens her mouth?
This is actually a very general stickingpoint for me: When i see or chat with a girl online, I assume she is in the same state as I left her in the last time... but it seems with some women i have to go through it all from the beginning each time: Negging, telling funny stories and all this shit.
They seem to forget how amazing I am. Or something like that
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Vap0r
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| Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 12:03 am Post subject: Re: Sticking point - the phonecall |
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| SvenBula wrote: |
This is actually a very general stickingpoint for me: When i see or chat with a girl online, I assume she is in the same state as I left her in the last time... but it seems with some women i have to go through it all from the beginning each time: Negging, telling funny stories and all this shit.
They seem to forget how amazing I am. Or something like that
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Yeah, unfortunately since the phone is a new channel of communication her buying temperature isn't magically going to carry over from myspace. So you need to run an attraction bit and have her answer a couple qualification questions before building rapport. This should only take a couple minutes though. And if you do it with the same positive energy as your myspace messages she'll be brought back into the same state she was on myspace.
I'm not sure if anyone else agrees with me, but when it comes to MySpace & Facebook I find using Push/Pull and playful teasing throughout the message/phone conversation is more effective than just delivering a neg or two at the very beginning. But then again, I think using traditional negs online is gay anyway since you can't use body language and tonality to deliver them correctly. I guess abruptly ending the message could be equivalent to a 'back turn'
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SvenBula
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| Posted: Fri Mar 21, 2008 12:07 am Post subject: Re: Sticking point - the phonecall |
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| wise thoughts. I'll change my plan from now on. Thank you man |
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