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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:37 pm 
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Most of the time while I sarge, I am only looking to # or kiss close to try and get more FWBs. Every once in a while, I will put all my game to the ultimate test of a ONS. I will leave my place only looking for sex with a stranger, that I will never talk to ever again. My method isn't 100% perfect, but through trial and error has been really good to me. Here it is.

Before gioing out

1. Spruce up your shack. Clean and remove anything that is AFC or fratboy looking crap. Clean it like your selling it.
2. Clean up your car. Inside and out, no garbage and get an air freshener and have a wide variety of music at your disposal.
3. Hit the showers, shave, cologne, etc. (no need to explain)
4. Have condoms, with you, in car, and at home. (ditto)

Most women that go out aren't looking for sex. A small % of them will let it happen if your game is strong. They are out there, but you have to look for certain qualities and how to exploit them. Here are the classics I have SNLd before and you should too.

1. The girl dressed to the 10's or just overdressed for the venue she is in. Her outfit is telling the world "I took a long time to get ready to have fun tonight, I'm looking good and want to be noticed" If she took 3 hours to get ready, she is more than ready to have some fun. Exploit this.

2. The girl with the short hair. This is chick code (CC) for "I'm recently single and changing my look to find a new man." She is on the rebound and needs validation in her life. exBfdestroyer+DHV+kino=sex

3. The girl doing hella shots and has way too much energy flowing. She wants to get really fucked up so she can have plausible deniability for the sex you should give her. Isolate,kino,bounce and close. Next.

4.The girl dressed like a nymphomaniac whore. Hello wheelhouse!This girls outfit is screaming to you "I am very sexually active, I love it, I can't get enough, and I want you to notice me." Give this girl a condom, tell her "if you can't use this, I want it back later." walk away. She will come back to you, and when she does it's game on.

5. The girls in a bachelorette party. These girls NEED a reminder of why it is still fun to be single. They need to feel romanced like their friend is. Plus they are usually drinking a lot. Be that guy to remind them that being single can be a blast.

6. The girl grinding every guy on the dancefloor. She is kino escalating the entire bar. This is too easy

7. The girl who mentions another location while with you. This is an undercover invite for you to say "lets get out of here." If she agrees to go to any location with you no matter where it is, you are fucking tonight. If her friends think you are leaving to get food, they are more likely to let her go. Once away from her firends, tell her she should go to your place instead because you have to show her picture of your trip to Vegas (or whatever).

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1. Stay sober if you can. This will make venue bouncing smooth and easy.
2. Don't let her get too drunk. You want her buzzed, not puking on your face before sex.
3. No pressure for sex. If she's leaving with you, it will happen, just go through the motions and make it your fault.
4. Have a variety of alcohol at your place in case she hates whatever you normally drink.
5. Disable all the obstacles before attempting the bounce. You do no want some mother hen cockblocker pulling your puss out of the car buy her hair.

Whatever I missed here add it below. Sorry for the length of this post.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 30, 2009 4:04 pm 
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8. Any girl who you catch looking at you more than twice.

9. Women that look uncomfortable in their surroundings, usually recently single and their friends drag them out to show them a great nite, end up gettin drunk and leaving said friend to fend for herself. - v v v easy target

10. The girl u managed to pull just by saying hello


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Good post! Thanks.

I'm definitely starting to move away from ONS's though. Looking for pivots, FWBs and MLTRs with the aim of something a bit more regular/consistent.


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Only time Ive ever had a one night stand was when she was shit....

If the sex was good it makes lil sense not to do it again, once I bedded a girl I normally like to get 3 sessions out of it so it doesnt start gettin serious, but uve put in enough man hours with her.

Say 3 weekends per person, with obvious overlaps and picking up while u see the girl. I find weekend 1 f-close, weekend 2 is usually a mammoth marathon, and weekend 3 u can fuck her then neg her out alot so she gets the impression u lost interest.

Altho i still get girls who after the 3fucks could leave it a month n then ring back to link up again. I also make sure that by the 3rdfuck the girl is aware of my lack of emotional investment etc and reinforce the fact that I want to remain single etc.

Kinda made bout 3 fbs following this approach


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Once you pull a girl from a club,,, no food till after sex. Stopping off at Denny's kills the whole build-up 9 times out of 10.


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A lot of those categories are dead wrong...

As the first guy to teach a Same Night Lays course in the community, I can tell you that unless the woman is out alone, there's no way to tell who's up for a SNL.

You will be surprised at how often that demure Real Estate Agent sipping wine with her coworkers will be tied up in your bedroom later.

Screen logistics early and you'll have a much better idea of what's possible.

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A lot of those categories are dead wrong...

As the first guy to teach a Same Night Lays course in the community, I can tell you that unless the woman is out alone, there's no way to tell who's up for a SNL.

You will be surprised at how often that demure Real Estate Agent sipping wine with her coworkers will be tied up in your bedroom later.

Screen logistics early and you'll have a much better idea of what's possible.

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I think OPs list does give some indications but its just a bit of fun.

I like your insight into gaming groups of co-workers. They won't be going home with them unlike friends would so good chance to isolate. Her fellow co-workers tend to duck out early to go home to family / spouses.


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yeah there is kinda a tideturn with regards to chicks in bars.

5-9 is usually afterwork drinkers, the best time to pickup a girl in group.

after 10 its usually party people and clubbers so u need to switch approaches.

I spend alot of time in bars in both lights really, I drink alot of nights afterwork in london and then do the clubbing and late night sessions back in my home town. That way im gettin 2 decent sessions whenever I bother going out


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i agree with all except 4 and 5.

I think that girls dress and act like whores just to get attention from guys and turn them down to feel better about themselves.

Also, I think bachelorette parties are a waste. In my experience, none of those girls really want to hook up. They just wanna be crazy and have fun together. None of them will go home with a guy, cause they will look like the biggest slut ever to all the other girls in the party. Then she has to confront them at thew wedding, and she probably knows them well through as friends or even family.

girls at bachelorette parties who hook up, are gonna hook up anyway regardless of whether or not its a bachelorette party. these are the girls that just don't give a fuck about being labelled a slut. I haven't met very many girls like this.


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i agree with all except 4 and 5.

I think that girls dress and act like whores just to get attention from guys and turn them down to feel better about themselves.

Also, I think bachelorette parties are a waste. In my experience, none of those girls really want to hook up. They just wanna be crazy and have fun together. None of them will go home with a guy, cause they will look like the biggest slut ever to all the other girls in the party. Then she has to confront them at thew wedding, and she probably knows them well through as friends or even family.

girls at bachelorette parties who hook up, are gonna hook up anyway regardless of whether or not its a bachelorette party. these are the girls that just don't give a fuck about being labelled a slut. I haven't met very many girls like this.
Totally agree with this dude.

I love ONS. The simplest approach is to find chicks who are out alone at a bar or club. There really is not a better sign. The opener always is, "Where is you BF, or SO?" That way you have established your intentions form the get to. In fact my problem is that I meet girls that way who I am just not that into, and end up ditching them later.

This approach works best on off nights during the week.


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when the hell do you find girls out on the town on their own?! I teach this stuff and ive never come across one in my life! lol

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when the hell do you find girls out on the town on their own?! I teach this stuff and ive never come across one in my life! lol

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when the hell do you find girls out on the town on their own?! I teach this stuff and ive never come across one in my life! lol
Really? I am like what you guys would probably think is a faggy art school type. That scene is full of loners. Monday night I went to an upscale bar. There was an older chick eating a lone at a table for two. So I asked her if I could join her. Went to a club with her after chatting for 15 minutes. This is a pretty consistent angle that I work. I am total cougar bait. But that is too easy.

Tuesday night. I went to a hipster bar that is popular with ALT tattoo chicks. Sat by myself. Chatted with the bartender swapping tattoo stories (I have a lot of tats). A goth chick with lots of make up sat one stool over form me by her self. I just asked her how her night was going. Then we had a smoke outside. Walked her home after the bar closed. No F-Close. 3b only. She was kinda a scene chick at this place, knew the DJ or something. But was there that night alone for sure getting drunk. My best guess is she was trying to piss off the DJ by letting me take her home. She was hot.

Last week I went to this bar / art gallery place. A chick was sketching with a highlighters. I was like why the hell are you using a highlighter to draw with and not a pencil. She laughed and bought me beers. She said she just walked by that night and thought the place looked cool and was hanging out alone. She wanted to take me home, but I wasn't feeling it. Not that hot. So I left around 11 to hit the strip club. I am a cold MF! I know.

That's three right there.


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I found this post very amusing, it makes me wonder if there really is science in this. In my experience any girl can be turned in to a ONS, it just depends on how much attraction you can create!

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I found this post very amusing, it makes me wonder if there really is science in this. In my experience any girl can be turned in to a ONS, it just depends on how much attraction you can create!
My thoughts are that it's a total science. What you really need to focus on is what works for you. Nerdy art school chicks just work for me. What can I say. I closed on some random chick I met off of craigslist.org tonight with the strangest post ever. She tried to blow me off at first online, but I kept coming back with interesting shit over email. Seriously. I thought online game was bullshit. But it worked for me tonight.

The best advice on here is from Zip who is says, break a girl out of her routine. That is the trick. You need to come off as interesting and unique. Different girls think interesting means different things. So focus on your segment. Blond chicks that are gold diggers hate me. I don't even talk to them. They think I am a total fag. With them I have no game. I can't really make it work. OK I have once in a while, but it's not my specialty.

I would like to see a post on this forum where we categorize the different types of girls by age, style of dress, attitude, time of day etc. This is how I work. I think each category has a specific approach. That approach works with ALL of those types of girls. What you need to master is that right approach for the right girl.

When I was really young I fucked a lot of lesbian. Talk about a segment! Find out what works for you and go for it.


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