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 Post subject: South Africa (SA) JHB
PostPosted: Tue Nov 01, 2011 8:18 am 
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Hey guys and welcome to the South African lair. (JHB region)

I've been thinking lately about how popular pickup is
in Johannesburg and to tell you the truth, I think
there is a fuckload of potential of how
much we can offer to the worldwide
community. We are so creative
and diverse and I think that
if we all make this a
collective effort and put our
heads together we can make great
things happen.

I want to start teaching bootcamps next year
and I still have quite a bit to go but and I am
learning new shit everyday and going out whenever
I can, I have new found confidence in myself which I
never had before, apart from that I have improved
so much where I was a year ago and its scary and
amazing at the same time to see how much this
can improve and change your life... and need
a wingman who wants to take risks with me and wants
to change only for the better and to help those in
need and change his/our lives in the process.
I don't want this thing to end
up like some boring interview on your
part but I don't even know if there
are alot of South African (JHB) aspiring
PUA's on this forum so I need to
get an idea of whatsup with our
side of the community. I know
there are boot camps out there
but I feel their teaching the
same old shit and I want
to change that...

If you have any stories to tell,
how you got into the game, how many
times a week your sarge/practice, where
do you like to sarge, how many
lays you've gotten, successful approaches,
your gurus etc... post them here and lets
all have this discussion as I am so
passionate about this, it
has changed my life...

So yeah guys, feel free to
comment and have your say.
Lets make this happen!

- Chai

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 08, 2011 2:01 pm 
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Whats up bro. I have been doing this for years. Started off about 6 years ago with David Deangelo and i have had a huge sucsess rate here in JHB. Altghough i do think the women heare in SA have slightly different mindset to those in the US and UK. Pesonaly it was very easy for in the US and UK. Let see where this goes.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 08, 2011 2:51 pm 
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Hey Leo26, yeah man the SA [JHB] vibe here definitely is definitely different by a big margin
than the US and UK scene, I have to admit though that in the US alot of the material is
being used very fast on alot girls quickly, but here it's fresh and that is why I believe
it can be done so successfully here. David DeAngelo is a great instructor I
read his stuff a while back its really informative. I mainly learnt body
language and being cocky funny from him, its actually helped
and improved various parts of my life which is a bonus too
cause I read his book like 3 years ago!

I learn from AFC Adam Lyons (direct game is my best, I did learn
indirect at first but it didn't really appeal to me).
Right now I'm learning how to approach women on
the street during day game and transitioning into greater
conversation from there, also learning club game
and social proofing (I have improved myself
so much in terms of where I was a year
ago its scary) I've actually been in
the game for 4 years but really
got stuck into it at the
beginning of this year
and hope to become
a PUA in 2012 (that's if the world
doesn't end, atleast I won't die a virgin haha)

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 Post subject: New to Johannesburg
PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2011 12:58 pm 
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Hey guys,
Im moving to Johannesburg from Cape town in January and im very keen on getting REALLY good at this.

My game is average seeing ive had a gf most of the time,and havent really put my full effort into it.Im familiar with some theory,althoughive gotta get more practical.

Gonna be living in Oakdene,so hit me up a message if you guys are keen to take control of your lives aswell

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Wats up. Im from Fourways by the way.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2011 1:09 pm 
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Hey PrimalCPT, yeah the more people that can get involved with
this the better.

I'm from Sydenham guys (lucky me I'm in the central hub near where
all malls and clubs are located haha).

What kind of game and which
PUA are you learning techniques
from man / do you
prefer Primal, indirect or direct?

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I haven't been that active of late,but when i was i really enjoyed learning techniques from Gambler.His game just seems so natural.

I don't really have a preference as such,just willing to learn what works.

Indirect or direct,i want to learn it all.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2011 5:22 pm 
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Nice, have you ever done his techniques in the
field before? I've got his UNG dvd he knows
his stuff...

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Hey guys, i'm actually from Cape Town, but I guess this is more applicable than the other threads as Chai seems to be really into it.

I don't think that a South African bootcamp would be a good idea as our country isn't the largest in terms of big citties with lots of women to sarge. Eventually you are going to start coming across the same women over and over, kind of like what Style talks about at the end of the game with so many RSD workshops going for the same 'strip' of clubs.

I was introduced to the game by my 21 year old brother (indirectly). One of his friends downloaded Mysterys TPUA season 1 for him and my brother discarded it as 'kak'. I was going through his dvds and found this, thinking 'ey what the hell', I pressed play and my life hasn't been the same since.

I wouldn't say that i'm an alpha male or that I have tons of natural game but i'm not one of those 'never been kissed guys'. I currently have a girlfriend who i'm trying to break up with so that I can get more into The Game. I'm 18 years old and will be attending UCT tomorrow, hopefully getting a place closer to town with a few of my 'natural game' friends who have dabbled in pick up, but for the most part prefer their own more crude methods.

I can be cocky funny and attract the 6-7s but I have a huge problem approaching the 8-10 range as I just don't feel worthy. Hopefully I can work on that as I get more and more into this.


If you are ever down in Cpt plz drop me an email/pm Chai so that we can get together. I would like to see someone who knows the game at work, as I am a complete newbie at the moment.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 2:58 pm 
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Yeah Noddeh I'm a big devotee to this community and I am very passionate
about this cause it's changed my life on so many levels its incredible, I want
to contribute as much I can...

That's not entirely true... Of course when you do live in a city
you will inevitably walk past the same chick sometime or
other because she lives in the same vicinity. Style did
meet the same girls but that's also because so many
students went to those same bars and nightclubs
and ran the same routines over and over
without any variation so it did catch
on eventually. Although, I feel
that Direct game, the one I
do, feels more natural and
coherent with the person
implementing it.

I mean don't get me wrong, I learned indirect game a long time
ago and it
has alot of variation but going direct is
very powerful if not
more effective too.
There are only so many times you can goto a club and ask girls
opinions. The girl when approached indirect will think "he walked all the way over here just to ask me a question? He's hitting on me!"

I know there are quite a few bootcamps being run already in JHB
but I will do more research on them as I am sure they
are teaching stuff from the game or RSD. The last time
I checked they are teaching indirect game like Mystery Method
and whatnot...

I may be in CT next year cause I haven't
been there yet (it looks really awesome) which may be next year,
I'll give you a shout beforehand so we can sarge together and
show you what its all about. Deal ;) ?

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I do agree with you on a level, some of the stuff that i've read over the last few months is just corny as hell. I just feel that as a starting point indirect game is a bit easier, for reasons which I can't seem to name currently :P

Its a deal. I'll be sure to try and knock the rough edges off of my game before you come down so I don't look like a little kid. Looking extremely to it in a '#nohomo' sort of way.


I'd also like to check out a bootcamp, if you here of any in cape town (or anyone does for that matter, could you please pm me some details)

Thanks for your time :)

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Indirect is easier for those I think breaking into the community
but I never got into it all cause I went with Direct game but
that's just my opinion. Sure man no problem hone
your skills no rush, if there are any BC's in CT
that I find i'll let you know.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:47 pm 
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hey if any one is interested in setting up a lair in jhb please let me know i live in hurlingham manor and would be very interested in meeting some like minded people that could help me out thanks


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Hey Tyranis, are you into Direct or Indirect game?
Who have you learned from, eg:Mystery, Gambler,
Style, Adam Lyons etc... Give some kind of
information about yourself and how you
came across the community so we
can do whatever we can to
help you out...

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:03 pm 
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i have looked at alot of stuff i have seen styles annihalation stuff some mistery and im going through the stealth game stuff and i first came accross it from a friend of mine who explain it to me and the i fell in love with the idea i want to learn as much as i can about all of it to be honest. so both direct and indirect. what i hope to do is get as much info and practice as possible and then work out exactly what works for me and makes me the most comfertable


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