Now that I've got 50 posts I can finally post here which co-relates to my game. I've been out 9 nights in a roll which resulted to my last night getting a lay with the first girl I've opened. I did gamed her pretty well and I'd write a report about it when I have time but problem is I cum too fast.

I've had loads of roleplay with her and by the time of penetration she was super wet.
I've only lasted like 5 minutes though and couldn't give her an orgasm which made me really upset and she felt it so she was trying to make me feel better. I'm defo sure she was disappointed though. She didn't say anything but she signed like 5 times while in we were cuddling in my bed.

I stopped watching porn and have watched some of Daniel Rose videos but my goal is to last at least like 30 minutes.

Any advise on how to last longer guys?

Lick her pussy before you enter her.

Did that for a while. I also know a very good technique for fingering but I could just tell she wanted my cock in her pussy man. At one point she just grabbed my dick and put it there herself...

I'm not being funny... I'm dead serious... I jack off twice a day on days I don't get laid. I always keep my cock in the practice of coming 2 times a day minimum.

Never had ED. never used Viagra/Cialis...

Get used to fucking. Read tantric breathing practices (don't mock it people, shit works!). Learn finger/tongue techniques (see: squirting) for the interim while reloading after blowing your load...

Also - you can do this: First time out of the chute - blow on her face or tits... then go down on her while you reload.

Use the dick like it was meant to be used!




PS - I'm 45.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Don't want to be rude but this advice reminds me of girls telling me to be myself to get other girls before I found out about game.

If no one wants to help seriously that's fine... I'm just pissed of that can't pleasure a girl which ruins my inner game.

Maybe next time I won't even get harder when I see a naked women...

Masturbate 2 or 3 times before you go out sarging. It will desensitize the head or your penis and will make you do your fuck routines longer. Play music in the background so you can measure your performance duration. Most often 2 minutes feels like 30 minutes. As a rule of thumb, a typical song is about 3 minutes long.

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I don't want to be rude either.... but I answered your question.

If people are trying to flame you.... they're not the 'typical PUA'. I don't set out to insult other PUAs. If I respect their game - they're family. We work together - in packs. We get it.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I just remembered an old trick that I've learned from Kline-Graber.

When you masturbate, use a lubricant. Some mild baby lotion will do. As you're about to come, stop your masturbation and count up to 20. Masturbate again. As you're about to come, stop again and count up to 10. Repeat 10 times. So that's around 20 failed e.e. cummings.

Do this routine daily until you get the hang of it. You'll make Rocco Siffredi blush.

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They have condoms with de sensitizing lube on them.. It will help.. But be carefull.. It ended up making me unable to orgasm untill I took the condom off and did my own thing if u know what I mean.. Lol

Same problem as OP.

TBH the masturbate twice a day thing is no good. I've started a pledge not to do it more than once a week. The less I do it the more confident and alpha I feel.

I could actually fuck more than I do, it's just I don't want to out of shame. I know how OP feels, more suggestions please.

No offence to those who helped above, but it's not the answer to our problem.

It's a mental thing...just learning to be aware of and control your own levels of arousal...like if you feel yourself peaking too early, picture something disgusting or whatever...also avoid being all hyper excited when you start off, that's always a recipe for an early finish.

My general rule is to give a girl a few orgasms before I get inside, sort of an insurance policy!

This motto is what makes the motto in my signature possible!

Bravo! Bravo!

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Guys I don't want to argue with any of you. So now that I have enough time I'll explain.

I am not looking for something that will help me have 3 orgasms while the girl only had one. I just want to last longer. As stated before 30 minutes would be perfect.

I know all these techniques: changing positions fingering/licking her while get hard again, heavy role play, dirty talking(this actually makes me come faster). I play with my hands all the time while thrusting. I go through all her body. I lick and bite her neck, nipples. I've even tried pulling her body into mine instead of pumping like a rabbit.

The only good advice here I've seen is from Hellhound and I'll give him credit for it because I've studied and practice this on a regular basis. It gives you the ability to multiple orgasms without getting soft and at the same time I've seen some improvement in lasting. It still doesn't give me the desireable effect though

I've been really bad before like I'd cum after 2-3 minutes of intercourse. Now I'm able to do it within 5-6 but that's like nothing. I think that for a girl that I've just met or we are doing sex for the first time it's normal for her to come after maybe 15-25 minutes of heavy sex. And then ideally I'll give her time and swap positions.
I want to have passionate crazy sex all night long instead of one song long ;(

i used to be pretty crap with this myself bro. and it fucking sucks. occasionally still have it. personally, i found that any shit people say to do with physical techniques such as jacking off loads or any distraction techniques dont really work. for me the problem was/is in my head. i get way too damn horny and into it and loose control. for example just focussing on how hot the girl is or whatever. i found out it helps more to just try and get out of that frame of mind where you are really excited and just chill the fuck out. im still recovering from it like you and have a slip now and again but mostly, as you become more confident with the problem and think about it less, combined with just practising becoming completely relaxed during sex, that you get better. it just takes time. and practise. fuck lots. and lots. that way it doesnt become a big deal if you mess up. the more you dont give a fuck, the less of an issue it becomes. the problem is in your head.. and its easy to beat... once you know how! good luck bro

Ok this is what you got do as you are fucking and you are about to cum, you say you shit baby let lick that pussy, uhm um, so you stop yourself, then the second time same process or simillar, then the 3 rd time you stop for whatever reason go down or lick her breast whatever, after the 3rd time your dick will be super pissed of at you, and he will last for a long time...

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