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 Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:04 am Post subject: Slept in her bed...now she wont talk to me |
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I met this girl on Friday night through mutual friends and we really hit it off. After all the partying and serious kinoing everyone went back to one of my friends room, a little later he kicked us out so he could go to sleep. Two other people the girl and I all went to her room (Her roommate wasn't here so the other bed was open. Thats where the other two slept). She grabs me, jumps in the bed, hugs me and falls asleep on my chest.
The next day (Saturday night) everyone goes out to party again and things start out fine still kinoing. She goes to meet her friend from out of town (a girl) and I don't see her till we all get back to our friends room. I went to kiss her on the cheek and she doesn't react. I began some kino with her and got the same thing.
I ran into her today at lunch and we barley said a word to each other (I'm trying to freeze her out)
I must admit I have a little bit of one-its for this girl and shes probably a lost cause. What do you guys think? Should I still go after her or let this one go?
P.S. I'll Write a full field report on my Saturday soon. |
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Trivial
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| Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:11 am Post subject: |
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After you kissed and no reaction you shouldnt have went for more kino.
But why and how are you freezing her out by not talking. Just going to push her away even more.
Keep talking to her like nothings wrong just when she touches you do the mystery line. Pull the same shit back on her. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 7:21 am Post subject: |
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| Yeah, definitely. Give her the "don't touch. This ain't free" line. |
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hollywoodinpa
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| Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 1:36 pm Post subject: hey friend |
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| Man the reason she's being strange to you is. because I think you just fell in the lets be friends zone with this girl. When a girl jumps in bed with you and cuddles agaist you thats you ioi for sex or extreem kino. What you did was freeze up and just watched her sleep and you were prob going back in forth in you mind should I try to do something or not. and you talked youself out of it am I right? A alfa male would have tried to do more then just sleep. She might have taking this as a sign from you that you just want to be her friend and arnt interested like that. because any other real guy who gets an ioi like that would move in for the kill.So now shes just treating you like the friend she thinks you want. Do you understand ? I could be wrong but I doubt it because that shit happened to my friend josh last year. Now you have to not freeze her out thats dumb it will make it worse. You have to just start acting like your her BF and real alfa in charge and she what her resonpse is . If she likes you being all touchy and kissy with you then your golden. but you have to try NOW.IF SHE LIKED YOU BEFORE REALLY GOOD CHANCE SHE LIKES YOU NOW. |
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| Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 1:39 am Post subject: |
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Thanks guys I got it.
No freeze out for sure.
Hollywood, when I go over everything about it you’re completely right. I froze up and became content with the situation. I’m gonna try and get out of the LJBF zone soon enough. I’ll keep everyone posted. |
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-Fluff-
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| Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 7:55 am Post subject: |
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Long time no post
I haven't talked to this girl in a while and I realized the only reason I liked her was hecause she was a walking talking anti-slut defence/shit test and I only wanted her because I had to conquer her. I the previous weeks i've been sarging and my cinfidence has skyrockted, I'm pulling HB 8's and above pretty well. This girl is a (and thats being gracious).
So I was hanging out with a girl on my floor I'm hooking up with (probably a bad idea if things go sour) while hanging out about to play beer pong.
ASD HB (anti slut defence HB): Hey fluff can I play with you?
Fluff:umm...no
Just then her friend told me not to give her anymore to drink. I didnt want to be a drunk girls parther anyway, so I gave her a simple task.
Fluff: Here hold my phone. Don't leave!
ASD HB: Ok no problem
Fluff: And dont go through it either
ASD HB: I cant figure out your phone any way, it's to complicated.
Fluff: Thats because its got drunk girl defense activated
She laughed and gave me a light punch to the arm. To late for IOI's sweetie.
So a few gmaes later my hammered AFC friend starts hitting on her and convinces her to go outside. She denies this 100% but I saw him k-closing in the hallway after she said
"I'm not hooking up with anyone in this room tonight". Hilarious.
I've come to the conclusion that this 7 (on a good day) is a waste of time and only opens up when shes had a few (which isn't what I'm looking for). |
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Ka
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Glad your over the one itis.
If you want my opinion i think you got very into describing the bond that was there but not how you created that bond and escalated things like attraction and comfort.
It sounded to me from the first post that you got her opened, attracted, comfortable with kino but like some other guys left her hanging way too long without any kind of hooking her in, she had no investment in you and after a night and a day of getting no statements of intent or moves on your part she detached.
If you go all night without any kind of closeing and a girl drags you into her bed, for the love of god please at least kiss her  Thats like her last reach at having you do something with her.
So that was just my observation from your post, hope you realize what you gotta do next time. Remember even tho she might have to be a slobbering drunkard with AFC's to get with them...your not an AFC, her rules do not apply to you, imo you coulda probably k-closed her or better that night. You would have been the exception to her rules and she would value you more for that.
Hope this helps. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Excellent insight Ka. |
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