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Hassler
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 Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 5:31 pm Post subject: Shit Test |
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| Ok, what do you do when a chick flat out ignores you, walks away and then talks to her guy friends. Cuz I could tell she was studying me, to see if I cared, or how jealous I'd be. I just played everything cool, and just stood there lookin badass. Is there a specific technique to do? |
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Memento
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I would personally neg her, or use cocky comedy as it creates interest and would grab her attention. It tends to work.
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EL Rey(The King)
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| Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 10:14 pm Post subject: |
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| Win over her guy friends. make them love you and think ur funny as shit. create your own conversation circle with them,,, so then shes the outcast and then tries to win approval of the leader which is you. |
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Hassler
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| Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 12:42 am Post subject: |
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| Yea, I usually negged her 1ce and then DHV'd when she came back to me. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 2:04 am Post subject: Re: Shit Test |
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| Hassler wrote: | | Ok, what do you do when a chick flat out ignores you, walks away and then talks to her guy friends. |
Exactly, make friends with the guys and become the leader.
| Hassler wrote: | | I just played everything cool, and just stood there lookin badass. |
You FUCKED up by just standing there. Period. |
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masterPUA
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| good job, it doesnt bother you... you have dealt with better girls than her, she actually thinks she has somethin goin for her? shes nothin and it was an honor to have talked to you... i think you did a good job |
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Hassler
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| masterPUA wrote: | | good job, it doesnt bother you... you have dealt with better girls than her, she actually thinks she has somethin goin for her? shes nothin and it was an honor to have talked to you... i think you did a good job |
Yea, Bingo, that's what I was trying to prove. And I also made sure everything I said was funny. When she was talking to me she would bust up laughing, and when she was talking to those other guys, she didn't laugh at all. It's like "Yea, talk to those BORING guys over there, or talk to me, I'm funny as hell and you should be honored I'm giving you any of my time"
And the thing with this chick, is that she's used to every guy begging for her attention/tending to her every need, and here I come along, and she has to earn my attention. It's like training a dog. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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| Ok, so you're standing back, being the stud. You're training her like a dog. Tell me, what exactly did you do to make yourself "look badass"? |
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Hassler
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| Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Acting unimpressed with her talking to the guy. I was also talking to my wing and some other guys to show to her I don't need her. It's a part of the cat string theory, push/pull. |
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Ka
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I think you should have done 1 thing differently. I wana say this but mention that i am personally new and my advice may mean nothing...
In my opinion what you should have done was immediatly turned around and open another set, one you did not know. From observeing and going over how i interacted with my friends i realized that going back to your friends (assuming the girl knows you are there with them) actually is a sign of bailing....
Let me explain.
When she went back to her friends regardless of the reason you are never supposed to wait for a target. By returning to your friends you were going back to your comfort zone, and even if she didnt perceive this concously, it apears like a retreat.
Why a retreat? Because you are going into a social circle she will not enter, thus its a saftey zone to get away from her... im not saying this was your intention or how she perceived it, but thats how it may have been sub-concously judged.
By opening another set your showing her alpha qualities by not waiting on her, by being social, and by being the center of any group you are in. This is a form of DHV i think because it would raise your social value to her and make her more intrested in you.
Worst case you are already in another set, selecting another target, and she missed out on a great guy. Her lose not yours.
This is just my opinion and like i said im new. My first sarge/first set i blew a possible k-close because i went back to my real friends for a split second when i was past the neg/dhv stage...im going out again this friday with the same friends and prob will seperate myself from them 90% of the time im at the club.
hope this helps gl |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 5:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Ka wrote: | I think you should have done 1 thing differently. I wana say this but mention that i am personally new and my advice may mean nothing...
In my opinion what you should have done was immediatly turned around and open another set, one you did not know. From observeing and going over how i interacted with my friends i realized that going back to your friends (assuming the girl knows you are there with them) actually is a sign of bailing....
Let me explain.
When she went back to her friends regardless of the reason you are never supposed to wait for a target. By returning to your friends you were going back to your comfort zone, and even if she didnt perceive this concously, it apears like a retreat.
Why a retreat? Because you are going into a social circle she will not enter, thus its a saftey zone to get away from her... im not saying this was your intention or how she perceived it, but thats how it may have been sub-concously judged.
By opening another set your showing her alpha qualities by not waiting on her, by being social, and by being the center of any group you are in. This is a form of DHV i think because it would raise your social value to her and make her more intrested in you.
Worst case you are already in another set, selecting another target, and she missed out on a great guy. Her lose not yours.
This is just my opinion and like i said im new. My first sarge/first set i blew a possible k-close because i went back to my real friends for a split second when i was past the neg/dhv stage...im going out again this friday with the same friends and prob will seperate myself from them 90% of the time im at the club.
hope this helps gl |
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Ubium
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| Ka's right about the "safety zone" makes sense that she would'nt venture into that so instead of retreating you rediscover something else like a new group of people. |
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B Rob
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I dunno how into you she was but... last time some broad did this to me I went up behind her, and whispered in her ear "you know, i think it's cute you're playing hard to get... but just so you know, I'm way better at it"
Then walk away regardless of what she says... open a new set... she's watching
My new set was way into me, and wouldn't you know... she came back and punched me while I was spittin game. The new set was hotter so I ignored her for the rest of the night anyways. haha... |
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Ermorden
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| B Rob wrote: | I dunno how into you she was but... last time some broad did this to me I went up behind her, and whispered in her ear "you know, i think it's cute you're playing hard to get... but just so you know, I'm way better at it"
Then walk away regardless of what she says... open a new set... she's watching
My new set was way into me, and wouldn't you know... she came back and punched me while I was spittin game. The new set was hotter so I ignored her for the rest of the night anyways. haha... |
This sounds pretty good |
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