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lnacid
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 Posted: Sat Feb 24, 2007 11:46 pm Post subject: SHIT SHIT SHIT i dont knew that i am a so big coward |
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Hey guys i am starting to go out and do the game, but i have big problems to overcome my fear
i am a cool guy,.. on my work as computer specialist i carry a lot of responsibility, and i have no problems with it.
For my job i have to speak with a ot of strangers, they accept me they ar listen to me, and they find me cool and sometimes brilliant...
the girls in the offices where i go to repair their computers the girls begin to flirt with me (but i have to be a little professional, i dont want to go out with clients of mine...)
bnut when i go out to try at gaming i become panic a second before i want to open a set... i know the tings that i written at top of this post--but when i want to open a set i vorget all my self-confidence, i pass the set and dont talk with tem..
you have any tips for me how i can fight this shit fear?
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xfman
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3 seconds rule... Don't even think about it just do it.
You got thew experience of your job. think that their are a bunch of new costumers.
Follow the 3 seconds rule, and don't be afraid. |
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lnacid
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| Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:32 pm Post subject: |
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i read all the stuff from mistery, and all the tipps in the forum too,
yes the 3 second rule sounds good, i have tried to apply it, but nothing i turn ever away and finish..
maybe i need only a little training  and after the first set is opened i think all is easier.. so i dont give it up and try agin ... |
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Bose
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inacid man, listen to xfman cause he nailed it.
don't even think about it, just do it, and remember the worst most likely thing to happen would be rejection! Lol oh no! 1 woman rejected you, time to move on to the multi-billion other women you haven't even met yet.
also keep it simple, when I first started my problem was thinking to far ahead, you don't want to over script things.
Remember a good solid opener, you can use it more then once, then just go in for the kill. Fine tune your techinque, which will obviously adapt depending on your location, naturally.
Then just try and number close, do the good ol' go for coffee kinda thing. Make it simple.
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lnacid
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thanks guys,
yes i try it again, and try to think is no big deal  in reality i know its no big deal but something in me sees this different so i let my brain control my game
thanks for your tipps |
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xfman
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Another thing you can do is arrive to the club / bar or the place your going to sarge and open any set you see. It will be great that you open a set of some normal girls maybe a 3 set of 6HBs.
Also you can start talking with the staff of the bar/club , maybe the bartender, etc...
All of this is just to give you the confidence to start opening your real sets ( HB10  ) |
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