theDean
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 Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 10:15 pm Post subject: She's interested, but no physicality |
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This is my first post here, and I'm happy to be making it. I'd love any feedback that you guys might have.
My Background:
I'm new to the PUA thing, but I've always had good natural skills. My game takes a bit longer to play out (a week and a half), but I seem to have no problem getting dates.
About Her:
HB8.5. She's about 6 years younger than me, but she easily looks 21. She's tottaly perky and bouncy (mentally guys! stay with me here.) Traditionally, I date more intellectual girls, and I'm having a hard time transitioning into developing sexual tension.
Overview:
- We emailed a few times.
- I used some dysqualification "I used to be into some of those things a few years ago. Now I wouldn't be your type." and "I'm too rough around the edges for you". She responded with "I think you're my type, you're interesting" and "rough around the edges is hot"
- So we blah blah about meditation and spiritual stuff and she says she's excited to meet me
- We go get coffee, end up going to a nice lake (in FL so its warm) and we sit and talk. I do a little Kino, like checking her hands out. She doesn't mind, but she doesn't give signals back. No regrasping... It kind of feels like she wants me to take control.
- I can tell she's into spiritual stuff, so I tell her some haunting stories from my childhood, some ESP stories about my mom, and I do the number guessing thing. From 1-4 I guessed. turned it into 1-10, and guessed it. She's shocked. She thinks I'm a bit of a sprititual guru, because I do meditate a lot.
- She tells me I have nice muscles and that she likes that Im tall
- She tells me she wants to see me again.
- Today, she emails me on MySpace and says "You're nice to look at"
- We're getting together for lunch on Sunday. At about hour 4 of 7.
So I know this girl digs me. The IOIs are there, but for some reason I feel its hard to get connected on the physical level.
HELP! How do I get the physical game going?!!
Should I do the "Do you want me to kiss you?" thing?
Just go for it?
More Kino?
Or maybe Neg her for giving mixed signals (sometimes lights a girl up like a light switch)?
Any pointers on what to do when a girl says she's into you but physically keeps her distance would be helpful.
On the plus side, I think she's a fixated that I'm not falling all over her like an AFC and I feel good for not being awestruck and needy.  The PUA thing is helping already. |
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Mr. Fantastic
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| One word- Caveman- It may sound crazy, but this sounds like the kind of girl that wants you to take control and throw her around a little. I think it'll work, as a matter of fact I would lay odds that you don't even get LMR. I hope that the Lake wasn't your only chance for this. Maybe blow off the lunch date to not be too available to her, then reschedule for somewhere with good isolation. Good Luck man, definitely keep us posted. |
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