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King Korona
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 Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 10:50 am Post subject: she wants porn...? |
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| alright, this is something that i have not experienced before. i have a friend with benefits/fuck buddy w/e u wanna call it. she text me today saying next time we fuck we r gonna watch porn while we go at it. i think this is the sweetest shit ever and am pretty jacked about it. my question is how do i go about it? should i download a bunch of videos and then let her choose or take my favorite vid and use that, should i use amateur, porn star, hardcore, etc? help would be great guys and girls. |
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LOCO
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 3:13 pm Post subject: |
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| lol, just take one that you can keep up with so she doesn't wish she was fucking the guy in the film instead of you |
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mOlis_pir3s
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hahahahha!!! that made me laugh LOCO haha 
yeah dude just download something not tooooo freaky... maybe something similar to what you guys do in bed BUT with something extra so she gets into temptation to do it too |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 8:51 pm Post subject: |
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| You want to make sure to discuss with her before this, what interests her. Find out what turns her on, what kind of porn she loves to watch and get into it with her, talk about it and make it something you can share, something that turns both of you on. Like was already said, something that you can mimic is good, cause otherwise if you aren't sunk up, it won't create the same effect. |
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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you made your first mistake...
there are almost never ever friends with benefits.
in very rare situations.
well, maybe, i guess you could be that rare situation.
as long as she knows clearly you're seeing other people.
as for porn, go out for a bit to eat, tell her lets take a walk around, i'm not too familiar with this area, you pass by a porn shop, casually take her in, say you need help looking for a gag gift for a friend, shop around, have fun, laugh.
**scout a few locations on your own and plan your eat and walk accordingly, go to the one that seems the most over the top, classy, interesting, and fun.
by over the the top i mean as in having a really playful atmosphere.
don't go to a hole in the wall place, you don't want to scare her.
put a giant dildo next to her cheek, not too close(you don't want to hurt her), call her name, and her face hits it just as she turns. then have a nice laugh.
maybe mention, i'm not too into this stuff, what's something you really like. maybe have her pick a few dvds, make sure she actually picks something she likes and she's having a good time and she's not just picking something so you guys can leave the awkward situation.
then buy one later, when she's not around, surprise her with it and watch it on the next meet.
i think it would be a great way to interact and laugh in the porn shop, it's only going to be weird if you make it weird. |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 9:57 pm Post subject: |
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| She TOLD him she wants to watch porn, so none of that applies. That's for if you're trying to get her interested in porn, which she already is, so she's only gonna laugh at him for not being the man she expects him to be. |
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tuesday
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| Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 11:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Rye Lee wrote: | | She TOLD him she wants to watch porn, so none of that applies. That's for if you're trying to get her interested in porn, which she already is, so she's only gonna laugh at him for not being the man she expects him to be. |
yea, but you act nonchalant about it.
you don't give them everything they want.
you're allowing her to be your sex buddy...
play them, keep them on their toes. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| tuesday wrote: | you made your first mistake...
there are almost never ever friends with benefits.
in very rare situations. |
NOT true. Not true at all.
And King . . . definitely just talk to her before hand to find out which kind of porn she actually likes. |
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tuesday
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wow, do you have more friends with benefits than normal friends?
you're one lucky cat. |
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| L.A. Tripp wrote: | | tuesday wrote: | you made your first mistake...
there are almost never ever friends with benefits.
in very rare situations. |
NOT true. Not true at all.
And King . . . definitely just talk to her before hand to find out which kind of porn she actually likes. |
I don't see anywhere in there that he said he had more FBs than normal friends, he merely said that FBs aren't as rare as you make them out to be. |
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true true.
yea, maybe i just haven't met enough who are like that.
i tend to stay away from those type of girls. |
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| tuesday wrote: | true true.
yea, maybe i just haven't met enough who are like that.
i tend to stay away from those type of girls. |
You stay away from them . . . and then claim that they are extremely rare . . .  |
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now i'm being ball busted, hahaha.
that's what i meant.
i'm judging by my interaction, that's why i think they are rare to me, cuz i tend to stay away from them, i'm accepting my mistake...
does that make sense? |
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L.A. Tripp
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| tuesday wrote: | now i'm being ball busted, hahaha.
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I'm normally good at that. Yes, that makes sense as to why you said what you said. |
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DTM
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| dude just get a Jenna Jameson DVD. Those arent too hardcore but still not soft either. Thats better than something like "10 midgets, covered in thousand island dressing, spanking a man" (lol sorry, south park refrence) |
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