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Dalton
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 Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 4:35 am Post subject: She still won't touch her wallet |
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So I've gone on two dates with this girl. She's about an HB8. Both dates I have waited with the bill sitting there to see if she will go for her wallet or even offer SOMEthing. She didn't even touch her wallet either time. I have the edge in everything, she's definitely more interested in me. I think the next time I will take her for a walk in the park and a f*** on her couch. If she wasn't interested I wouldn't bother calling or seeing her again.
So my question is does anybody have any advice on how I could have convinced her to touch her wallet on either of the dates? |
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OneManWonder
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 5:51 am Post subject: |
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| "Do you think Im a free meal?" |
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Dalton
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 6:16 am Post subject: |
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| Hmm, never thought of something like that. Let's expand. How about "you realize if I pay for this you are obligated to come home with me" or "So you're getting the next dinner then?" How do we get some humor in there so she learns her lesson without making her feel stupid? |
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Smile4now
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 12:09 pm Post subject: |
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Dalton wrote:
| Quote: | | "you realize if I pay for this you are obligated to come home with me" |
Thats AFC if you ask me, "Nice prizes here! dont you think?" maybe.
I never take girls out to dinner (aint got the cash nywayz ;p). Walk in the park seems better, how about a picnic - bring some grilled chicken and tell her to get wine or w/e. |
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Romeo7
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| Posted: Fri Apr 20, 2007 10:52 pm Post subject: |
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I like what Charge said
"Do you think I'm a free meal?"
HAHA, not only it conveys humor, it also hints she's the one hitting on you (powerful), you've had other girls pay for you before (even if you haven't) and more than anything that YOU are in control
I usually have girls trying to pay for me, (In Starbucks or fast food restaurant, I never take them to expensive place, NEVER) or telling me I'll pay next time, or where do you wanna go, etc (also, since they towed my car way, they come pick me up to my house, take me and drop me back at my house, in other words, they live up to me)
What's the secret?
The meals, roses, chocolates, gifts, whatever it may be has to be done with the attitude of "This is just a gesture, a cute detail; not a way to get your love or open your legs, my personality can do that"
If you can accomplish that, you're in for a big change
If you read from any gurus, check all of the "Beliefs" part, they are important
RECOMMENDATIONS: Swinggcat and David DeAngelo |
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Dalton
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| Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 6:32 am Post subject: |
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| thanks, good recos. I have a whole new way of thinking to change, it's about time I did it. I'll let you know how it goes. |
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