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stekehmrt
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 Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 9:56 pm Post subject: she says she loves me |
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hey yall
my girlfriend says she loves me, i textmessaged her i was worried about her being on vacation alone.
She told me the locals were hitting on her, but there was nothing to worry about.
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somehow it makes my stomach flip over.
i know yall cant tell me whether she cheats or not, but has anyone got some advice for me.
how to deal with it, like:
text her a lot?
dont text her?
what to text to her?
any tips to see whether she's cheating or not?
shes very fkn beatiful. the locals told her also  i dont want to lose her.
best regards |
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bltjosh
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| trust is one of the most important parts of a relationship. call her to show that your thinking about her. but i wouldnt bug her too much, it could piss her off. |
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gyarados
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if she cheats she will leave clues. 
My gf used to tell me she loved me to stop me going with other girls like its manipulation to make me feel guilty Trying to stop her will only make her more likely to do it.
She will tell you more the more happens.
so far I have worked out...
loads of guys keep hitting on me genrally means> I am flirting with a lot of guys.
A guy tried touching me up genrally means> I let a guy flirt with me and ended up kissing him when I was drunk and he wanted to do more, and tried taking it firther but I stopped it.
A guy tried to kiss me and I pulled away genrally means> i didnt really want to kiss him but he kept pesturing me and I gave in.
Ask her when she comes back, if she answers your question at face value thats bad news. The male shit-test lol.
| Quote: | | She told me the locals were hitting on her, but there was nothing to worry about. |
I don't like the sound of this, it implys that there is good reason for you to be worried, and feels the need to reassure you.
If I was a girl and my guy asked something like that and I wasn't flirting with other guys then I would be like "what that's ridiculous"
But the girl here seems like she doesn't have trust in your trust.
It sounds to me like your are both only together to stop each pther from going with other people.
Whether Im right or wrong it seems you dont trust her and your acting needy,
Read "the game" and go find a more attractive girl |
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stekehmrt
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| Simcity wrote: | | Read "the game" and go find a more attractive girl |
she is the most attractive girl ! 
dude i swear, shes the best thing that ever happened to me :s call it oneites and ur right if you say so.. but damn. and i do believe she doesnt cheat on me, but theres this gut feeling that she might. the thing is that i wouldnt trust ANY girl because i figured that a.g.a.s. which means.. all girls are sluts.
somewhere deep down.
they cant do anything about it, well a little though. men are more rational. girls seem to act more from their emotions. so if a guy comes up knows how to push the right buttons the shit is on you know what i mean. 
but thanx though i really appreciate your post, and your girl dictionary it really helps, as a matter of fact ive saved it in a .txt file ! i think its really important.
damn why are girls so hard. |
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Nick Stone
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| "most attractive" i think many of us would disagree, all of us have different tastes. |
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The Wild One
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I wouldn't worry about it to much. It's out of your hands my friend and if you don't trust her than why are you dating her? Has she ever done anything to make you feel she can't be trusted? If so I would think about dating more girls.
P.S. The guys hitting on her sound like AF chumps don't worry. |
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Rye Lee
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Girls are just like guys, if someone knows what buttons to push, then they'll be interested, unless there is someone else that has pushed their buttons better. If you were with a girl that didn't make you this crazy and you met this girl, you'd ditch that first girl for this girl and that's logical, just like how women will go for the guy that pushes their buttons better. The solution, just make sure you are the guy that pushed her buttons the best.
How you proceed is dependant on what you want from the relationship. She told you she loves you, but if you don't love her, you just really like her, then you're gonna need to play it differently than if you love her. Either way, don't start acting like an AFC and start texting her all the time and calling her and trying to make sure she isn't with other people. PUA skills still apply in relationships and the leading cause of relationships not working out, is because guys will stop using the skills they used in order to make the relationship happen in the first place. |
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