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Okay, I am 52, and bald so keep this in mind to anyone having a confidence issue. She is 32 HB8 by all the pictures I’ve seen.
Friday night texting still apprehensive as to driving 4 hours to meet a man she has never met before. Can’t blame any self-respecting girl for that!
Saturday morning, Me: Do whatever you like no pressure.
Her: Maybe, but I don’t want to mess up any of your plans.
Me: No worries, I’m going to have fun reguardless if yo come or not, but you would be very welcome to join the adventure! (As I was dry walling my son’s ceiling lol)
Her: (1 hour later) guess what I’m doing?
Me: Driving of course.
Her: LOL yes!
Fast forward 4 hours: She cannot find my apartment complex, so I agree to meet her at the Shell Station on the corner nearby. As I’m waiting, I see a New Charcoal Hyundai sports car, wheeling hard into the parking lot, a blond behind the wheel. She did not see me and looped around to the other side, near the car wash. Thinking she was gonna have to wait for ME, she gets out to light a cigarette. Description: She gets out, Blond straight hair almost to mid back (all pictures it was curly, she straightened it) with a pair of low rise jeans that looked as though painted on, black leather boots all the way up those loooong legs to the top of the thigh, 4” heels (she is already 5’9” to my 6’), a small tailored leather jacket, and mirrored aviator sunglasses. (No lie here picture Cameron Diaz on the cover of the movie “Bad Teacher”)!!
We go to my place to get settled; she brought her small dog to keep her company. We have a glass of wine, and walk the dog for a few to get acquainted. We leave her dog while I take her for a quick tour around town and show her the shopping district, We return to check her pet, and a couple more glasses of wine. Then I just say “ok let’s go” and we head off to my local Pub. As we walk in I hear a bunch of thuds, the sound of jaws hitting the bar as the regulars see her LMAO! As we have a few drinks, we chat with one of my friends, a 22 year old cute waitress just getting off duty, who happens to be a lesbian, after some hysterical conversation, the waitress jokingly offers up a three way!!! To which she says “maybe next time I’m up!” . We then went to get something to eat, at the Bar/Grill next to my complex, not wanting to drink and drive! Shrimp Tacos and more hilarity insued!...back at my place another glass of wine! And walk the dog. Now cozy on the couch, she flops to the side and says “I need to lie down a little” with a big smile on her face! I suggest she lie on my bed for more comfort. She then says “I need a little help getting undressed I’m a little buzzed!”……..The next couple hours were fantastic!! She wakes me at 5 am for a repeat!
Sunday afternoon I take her for a wine tasting tour (I live on the edge of cherry wine country). Then to a local brewery, for a light dinner of wings, calamari, and goat cheese soup! Back to my place for round three. She stayed till about 8pm, and then she drove her 4 hours home! She text me about an hour ago “Best weekend ever!”
I will likely see THIS one again!
Close,
Heywood

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excellent, too bad she leaves 4 hours away... I usually do not date girls that leave more than 20 minutes away, but nicely done...

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Thanks Bro,

I date close girls as well, but I live in a vacation hot spot. So it is also tempting for HBs to come visit with NSA

It has not yet caused any problem with my local game!

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Someone sticky these threads for the ones that constantly whine about "I'm too old, I'm too tall, I'm too short, I have too high voice, I have too low voice, I'm getting bald, I'm bald, I'm ginger, I'm too thin, I'm too fat, I'm too muscular, I'm Indian, I'm Jewish etc. etc. etc."

Anyways... congrats mate!

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nice dude u said u met online? care to give us details? was it like plentyofish or facebook?

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Just trying to meet a 10.

Actually I placed an ad in the personals section on Craigslist, Never thought That would do anything, but fuck it!

Now what I can tell you is NEVER,NEVER put an add in the NSA section, all you will get is misfits, whores and mostly SPAM!

I placed it in the purely platonic section and received over 150 replies!!

A large % were too Fugly or to far! easy to weed out.

The standard Hot one always replied almost the same: "I am not looking for a date or a relationship, I just wanted to tell you how much I loved your add" LMAO

If you like I'll PM you the add to use as review only! I don't want it out there just copied and pasted, because I have pulled several very hot women with it!

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Well done!

Those are the moments that make you smile from ear-to-ear... and a few select people will now why.

Props my man!

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Very nice close!

Have you found in practice that your game changes in any way for women in their 20's, 30's 40's etc or do you use the same methods?

RR can answer this one as well if possible as you both seem Alpha OK guys.

I do not do clubs and bars and have found day game and collecting a series of phone numbers pretty lame.

For me, I've trained myself to only really notice women in my target demographic. I've learned over the past couple years that I can attract a young 30's - but the time, effort, age difference are all hurdles that have to be dealt with.

35+ seems to just 'fit' me. I've dated mid-upper 50's, and I've dated a series of upper 30's. That range just works. Learn your own range, and game ONLY those. I don't give a young chick the second look. There's no reason. If I'm out to sarge - I sarge my target demo, and I succeed. I could hit on a 20-yr old all day, but I would rather fuck than jerk off - it's that simple.

As for approach - you may have a bad mindset. Daygame doesn't equate to "lame way to get a few numbers" to me. Daygame equates to the majority of women I've fucked this year. 75% straight from a grocery store. But I've also picked up chicks from Walgreen's, the gas station, different resaturants, the beach, the pool at my townhome community clubhouse - even WalMart.

In fact the WalMart pussy was awesome. HB8, shopping there, we'd had eye contact... I looked back to glance at her and she was staring right at me. It was time to either put up or shut up - so I cavemanned her. I approached as soon as I felt that chill run down my spine knowing we were dead-locked into a stare, and neither was stopping it.

me: You look like an amazing woman, but We can't go on seeing each other like this.
her: mmmm good point, I'm really not even supposed to be out unsupervised...
me: No worries, there are men all over this store watching you. I admit, I was watching you too.... even considered taking you out - but it would never work.
her: (confused) uh! And I guess it would be all my fault
me: Yep, you're a woman.
her: (hitting me) It doesn't have to be my fault!
me: truthfully, let's get real... Imagine I'm with my friends and family - and I start the conversation "I have to tell you all about this incredible lady I met at WalMart!"...
her: (pure laughter) I see your point.
me: So unless we agreed to lie about how we met, we're doomed for failure. And if you do agree to lie with me, then we're already starting out with a lie!
It's a catch 22!
her: So don't tell me your name, I won't tell you mine and then we techincally never met here.
me: Or... the Ale House is just across the street, There's nothing to say I didn't stop off to have a beer after a rough day of WalMart shopping - and who did I run in to!?!
Her: I've got frozens... let me get rid of them and I could be there in 20 minutes if I'm bribed.
me: You could be there in ten if you really tried.
(and I left)

Daygame is easy for me. I don't know why... I truly believe it's because I'm comfortable, I'm bold, I'm assertive and I inject humor. I've been able to differentiate (for the most part - I still fail too) women during the day that are receptive to meeting someone for an intimate conclusion.

I've fucked no less than 20 women this year alone simply off of daygame, cold approach. For me - that's far from lame; it's mega-success. I fucking love it. But, I know my game, I know my demographic and I don't try to play outside my range. I've even dismissed potential women because I felt they were too young. But - the occasional one that I let slip by is more than accounted for with the MANY MANY in my demographic already.

Best,

RR

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Thanks for a great post RR. Yes you are pretty bold and assertive.lol.

Well I have a lot to learn as I have in the past not been Alpha enough but am doing my best.

Have read most of the material: MM, Xuma and Deangelo and I am basically trying to formulate a combination of the 3 different systems to suit my style of personality and dress (smart/casual business man type).

Keep the tips a comin' RR.

Thanks

I am going mostly stick with RR's reply here.

Although I seem to have the best "luck"? with women ages 37 (magic number for reasons unknown to me LOL) to age 48, I have in this past year ranged from 29-54. With the gal above being 32 no kids, never married RARE.

I "sarg" everywhere I go. Although my day game is not as tight as RR here. Not so much approach anxiousness as focus. Sometimes while out and about I am on a mission, causing me to have tunnel vision I need to work on that!

My job allows me to be online all damn day while working. I only have one "profile" and one online add.

I purposely narrowed my match results to 37-48 Because as RR said, why waist the time! Even my online add clearly states this! and yet older and younger still reply.

My email this morning reviled a 29 & 44 year old had replied, the following is the exchange to the HB8 29yo (she sent 3 photos 1 holding a hand gun )

HB8:
Hey. I've seriously never replied to CL ad. But yours made me laugh. I especially like that you added in the part about being a good parent. I am one, and a damn good one. I'm 29, 5 2, 117lbs, have my own place, car, and job. Would like to know your stats, because you seem to have forgotten them. lol Most important: how old are you and where are you located?

BTW: I make dishes seem fun in my house!

Heywood:
You look like an amazing woman, but sadly it would never likely work.
I am everything I said in my add but realistically... I put my age requirements in that add, I may need to review:) I'm 51 years old, 6' tall and about 200lbs. But if hanging out with experienced straight forward Men is something you would like to explore I would be happy to include a picture!

BTW: Thanks for the kitchen "visual"!

She has not yet replied, and she may not, but at least I'm not wasting my time or hers! And she knows the ball is in her court, if she replies I know it will be to qualify herself to ME!

Heywood

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Great posts Guys. It just goes to show that it's really all attitude and 'game' rather than movie star looks and a huge bank balance.

James, I've PM'd with Heywood, I'm sure he'll attest - but for me the secret is just knowing what works for me. I live in my comfort zone. I've stumbled, fallen, and been rejected as well - but I eventually just figured out how to minimize the rejection and maximize the pussy... I think that's one of the major advantages to sarging at mine and Heywood's age.

But dude, I think you're on the right track. You're taking an open approach - and that's key.

I say it like a broken record - but always try to see the concepts behind the lines. I never worried about memorization of lines - I worried about the reason/message/tonal quality/demeanor behind the opener. After that - creating your own openers become part of the entertainment. If I'm feeling really cocky - I'll caveman with a crab-grab and see if I can pull it off - what the fuck? I never even think about what to say when I move to open - I trust that it'll come out at the spur of the moment, and I trust my wit.

Enjoyed a nice afternoon... heh heh heh... Have a lunch scheduled tomorrow and am planning to club tomorrow night. For now - time to get back to work...

...the downside of being self-employed working from home: work hours don't mean shit! The upside: The commute is awesome and I can wear boxers to my desk...

Cheers!

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Nice tips RR and Heywood. I have my own business as well so am quite time flexible.

As for nite clubs and bars they are not my thing but I shall try to think up a few day strategies aiming at targets 25-45 years old.

Have a great weekend guys.

James, post some of the scripts from sarging if you will.

I find reading them - imaginging the interaction - very enlightening. I love the back/forth with other PUA's on the matter. It's cool to hear the props, but it's also cool when you post something - and then BAM! Someone from here offers a different take than I ever expected - and it's brilliant. I love the interaction here. It's mostly in my face, REAL, and just plain talk - no fluff.

You start to learn the trends of the people here, as well. Heywood and SA911 seem to mirror my game. Style has a nightclub/dance game that's obviously off the hook. CapnJack has some of the fucking ballsiest openers (that I've used with success I might add) you'll find. HH and Pumpington are both fucking sages. There are others, but you get the point. When I see posts from them - I read them.

I'm just never cocky enough to say I've stopped learning. I'm an old man in terms of being a PUA, but I'm still learning, still sarging and still LOVE the hunt.

I've got a lunch date today with one chick, and another tonight, and a booty call slated for Saturday evening. If I get any time to sarge between that, I will - and will post whatver results I have.

About 2x/year I'll sign up on one of the dating sites. I'll send 10-15 emails out and then watch what happens. This time - I've been on the site for 3 days, I've received 6 responses, 3 dates and more pending. Once I find 3-4 that I really dig, I'll shut down the site. Then - I don't say a word to them about it. They always question as to why I got off the site.... and I simply say "Too much distraction. I dig what's happening and don't feel the need to even go on their site.". She hears "I like you a lot"... I always seem to forget to mention I also landed 3-4 other chicks to whom I've told the same thing.... but they never seem to mind...

I figure I'll be closing this profile by the end of the weekend... LOL

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.