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Jac Cecil
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 Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 4:38 am Post subject: She cheated on me.... |
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| I've been involved in the Game for a couple of years until I met this girl and settled down with her. We dated for a long while and then she cheats on me. I still have feelings for this girl and she's terribly sorry for her mistake but I know I can't get back together with her. How can I move on from this and go back to gaming? |
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HighLonesome
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| Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Every morning when you wake up, go to your mirror, and look at yourself as you say the following phrase. "everyday and in every way, it's getting better and better and better." Do this everyday for a consistent period of time and your life will improve. Be well. |
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Ezo
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| Posted: Tue Feb 23, 2010 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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Man I feel your pain! You have to accept that it was not your fault she was an idiot and it has nothing to do with you.
I guess this is one of the things that time will heal, keep your mind busy on other things. |
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RuleBreaker
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| Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 5:02 am Post subject: |
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| Get your friends together, go out, and game. You might have an inner game problem, feeling like you have been deceived and what not, but the only way to get back into it is to shrug it off when you are out and act like the bachelor that you are. |
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TheGoldGeneral
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| Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:54 am Post subject: |
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Breakups are hard. Everyone does it in their own way.
I got naughty videos of my ex. I just watch them whenever I get lonely. Brain can't tell the difference between vid and reality, so it helps. Obviously this takes some foresight, not that they were taken for this reason.
Otherwise I just accept that breaking up feels bad, and let myself feel bad when it comes. Nothing wrong with that, just don't wallow in it for too long. |
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dark one
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| Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 2:34 pm Post subject: |
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Once a cheater always a cheater...drope her like a rock, find your self a dime peice, and rub it in ther face.
Thats what I would do. |
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Jac Cecil
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| Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 5:53 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks all for your responses,
Now this girl is crawling back to me begging for my forgiveness and she wants to meet up and talk. I agreed to meet with her and talk, but how should I handle that situation? I know I shouldn't get back together with her, but I feel like I'm still attached to her. I need help turning what will most likely be a weird situation into something I won't regret and I will end up in the best possible situation.
Thanks again all |
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RuleBreaker
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| Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 10:23 pm Post subject: |
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Only you know if you can forgive her or not. It doesn't take much thinking either; you know right now if you could be with her or not.
The thing you have to keep in mind is that if you get back into a relationship with her, this discrepancy of hers will have to disappear. If you keep bringing it up or using it against her in an argument or to get her to comply with new rules you have set for her, the relationship will eventually implode again. That requires a lot of sacrifice on your part, and in my opinion you don't deserve to sacrifice anything to a girl who cheats on you. |
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